Once you get past the pain of the break-up, there’s a lot to learn from your ex. What you can’t stand and what you must have in a relationship is just the beginning. The real lessons to cherish are those that can help you grow into a better mate.
Dear Dr. Warren, I dated a wonderful woman for three years. We had deep-rooted compatibility, great sex, and what felt like real love between us. Since we broke up, I've met some great women on eHarmony, but I can't stop comparing them to my old love.