There are many reasons why new relationships are challenging. There’s so much to negotiate. So much figure out. One of the more annoying aspects of dealing with a new love is considering how holidays, most notably Valentine’s Day, figures into your new relationship. Consider this situation:
When you’re frustrated that you’re doing more than your fair share in a relationship, do you feel the need to take action and try to talk the man your with into giving more? Sure you do – most women react the same way. And you don’t need me to tell you that most men will resist your efforts.That’s because of something I call “the convincer”. When you try to talk a man into doing what you want, he will naturally become “the resister”. It’s human nature.
At some point while you’re dating a new man, he is bound to do something that makes you feel weird, uncomfortable, or just plain angry. But you’ll probably feel like you don’t want to rock the boat with him.