Posts tagged Ask An Expert

I'm an Angry Person

Dear eHarmony,There’s really no flattering way to put this; I am a very angry person. I find that in my daily activities I experience...

A Relationship Requires More Than Just Love

Without love, two people could not commit themselves to a relationship. They certainly could never find it worthwhile to become engaged...

How Far Should I Go For Long Distance Love?

Dear Dr. Warren, My question is regarding long distance relationships initiated on the Internet. How much time should you spend with...

He's Dating Around. Should I Date Him?

Is it foolish for me to continue dating a man who is still seeing another woman? He has been completely honest about his involvement...

I'm an Angry Person A Relationship Requires More Than Just Love How Far Should I Go For Long Distance Love? He's Dating Around. Should I Date Him?

I Can't Take Rejection

I Can’t Take Rejection

Dear Dr. Warren,

My worst fear is being rejected by a female and when I do try to talk to the person that I like, my words come out all wrong. People say that a first impression is the most important thing but with me, that is not entirely true.

Dating, Dating Tips
I Don't Like His Friends!

I Don’t Like His Friends!

I’ve met a wonderful man, but I quite simply cannot stand his friends. He is in his late 30s, and these friends have been in his life a long time. It seems that he has changed quite a bit from the “old days,” but they are still beer-drinking, rowdy, party people. The kind of friends I don’t want in my life.

Dating, Dating Tips

How do I Stop Comparing Dates to my Ex?

How do I Stop Comparing Dates to my Ex?

Dear Dr. Warren, I dated a wonderful woman for three years. We had deep-rooted compatibility, great sex, and what felt like real love between us. Since we broke up, I've met some great women on eHarmony, but I can't stop comparing them to my old love.

Dating, Dating Issues
Open Communication Timing

Open Communication Timing

Dear eHarmony,I am now in the Open Communication stage with some of my matches. It has been about one week since I have communicated and I haven�t heard anything from my matches since then. How long does it take, on average for matches to respond while in Open Communication? How long should I wait for the response before closing communication?Sincerely,
Jackie in New York City

Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony

How do I stop getting too attached to my matches too soon?

How do I stop getting too attached to my matches too soon?

Dear Dr. Warren, I am trying to be very open to the eHarmony process. But am struggling with not taking things too seriously and getting too attached to matches too quickly. Can you help? Dr.

Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony
How do I tell someone nicely that I'm not interested?

How do I tell someone nicely that I’m not interested?

I’m new to eHarmony and have gone on two dates with a woman. She is great but not right for me. What’s the best way to handle the situation?

Dating, Dating Issues