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doesmaritaltherapywork

Four Main Reasons Couple’s Therapy Fails

Stacy and Jorge walked out of the marriage counselor’s office angrier than when they arrived. It was their third session and the last fight over his ex-wife wasn’t going away. The fifty minutes embroiled in a detailed outline of the battle only charged up their anger and the counselor’s request to remember how much they […]

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Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
relationshipblunders

Ten Big Relationship Blunders to Avoid

“I love him (her), but I don’t like him (her).” That’s a comment I hear in my couples mediation practice from wives and husbands alike. As I investigate the sentiment behind such comments, it turns out that the couple might love each other, but they aren’t very nice to each other. Betrayals of confidence, unnecessary […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
long distance relationship tips

Four Ways to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

So you’ve met someone online or at the birthday party of a mutual friend. Great! You’ve spent a significant amount of time with them, and you both decide you’re ready to commit to a serious relationship. Sounds fantastic except for one “minor” glitch: he/she lives 3000 miles away. What can you do to make your […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
therapyforcouples

When Your Partner Needs Therapy — But Won’t Go

How to deal with a person who’s reluctant to address issues… Jenna had finally found the man of her dreams. Well, almost. Her boyfriend, Chad, was a creative director for a New York ad agency. With a great sense of humor to match his sense of adventure, Chad was wonderful to be around…except when his […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationship Tips, Relationships
insecure partners

Five Ways to Deal with an Insecure Partner

Just about anyone who has felt the rush of falling in love would agree that the experience is like being strapped into an amusement park thrill ride — a swirling blend of conflicting emotions. Excitement and anticipation compete with a little trepidation at being in the grip of forces beyond one’s control. But for many people, ordinary […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
whattodowhenyouareboredasacouple

‘Help, My Relationship Has Lost Its Spark’

After moving in with her boyfriend Eric one year ago, following their college graduation, Emily, who is 25 years-old and working as a film editor’s assistant, plopped herself down on my couch and complained of boredom. She wondered if she was in the wrong relationship because she didn’t feel that spark of excitement anymore when […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips
whymenaredistant

The Real Reasons Men Are Remote

Here are four things to keep in mind when your man seems distant… When talking about the inner workings of human beings, it is dangerous to generalize. Exceptions will always confound simplistic answers to complex questions. Still, nearly all women share a frustration at some time or another in romantic relationships. They express it something […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
Sometimes Love Must Be Tough

Sometimes Love Must Be Tough

Tough love is a hard and sometimes sad road we must walk down.

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Expert Advice, Relationship Tips
The One Who Got Away

The One Who Got Away

Five reasonable, rational ways to try to “reel in” someone you loved and lost.

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About You, Relationship Tips
Money Matters

Nine Things Men and Women Argue About Most

What is at the center of most of our arguments? A group of men and women bravely revealed what they bicker about the most…

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About You, Relationship Tips