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Eight Valuable Love Lessons For Us All

It would be nice if life’s most important lessons came wrapped in a neat package and delivered to your front door. Unfortunately, many of the most essential lessons about life and love come the hard way—through disappointments, setbacks, and failures. Beginning in 1986, Dr. Terri Orbuch tracked the lives of 373 married couples and found […]

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About You, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
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Six Ways to Bring Out the Best in Your Partner

Congratulations! You have found someone with whom you want to share your time, your feelings, your love; your life. You have been given a precious gift. A loving relationship is something to treasure, to nurture and cultivate. Your connection should deepen with time and allow you to evolve as a couple as well as individually. While there are many ways […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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Seven Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Will Last

Author, speaker and pioneer in personal transformation, Dr. Ken Druck, and his partner, Lisette Omoss, reveal their guidelines for fostering a healthy relationship. We’ve both grown up on the job, learning from our relationships. To make our new love everything we wanted it to be, we had to take the next step. Learning how to […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
communication tips for couples

Why Good Manners Matter for Couples — Forever!

I know I am not the only person who has friends that I really enjoy spending time with one-on-one but who I dread socializing with when their partner joins the party. Sometimes, their sweetheart just isn’t my “cup-of-tea.”  But more often than not, I can’t tolerate the way they behave towards one another when they’re together. […]

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Communication, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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Ten Things Women Should Never Say to Their Men

Your man loves you — and doesn’t want to hear certain things from you. To keep your happy, healthy relationship healthy and happy, stay away from the following phrases. Here are ten things women should never say to their men: 1. “Man up.” This emasculating phrase is never, ever appropriate. He is a man. If he’s not meeting […]

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Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women, Relationship Tips
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Is Your Relationship an ‘Online Overshare’?

With Valentine’s Day (thankfully) behind us, this social media moderate is making a specific appeal to all you social network fanatics out there: Get a room. Before you call me the green monster, I can honestly say that this plea does not come from a place of jealousy. In fact, I love seeing my friends […]

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How to Break Up with Someone (Without Being Mean or Hurtful)

You might remember when Carrie Bradshaw, Manhattan’s Cosmo-drinking gal from ‘Sex and the City’, was broken up with on a Post-It note. Those of us who saw that particular episode let out a collective gasp at the horror of it all. Yet every day someone breaks up with someone else in a hurtful, dismissive way, and the […]

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Breaking Up, Dating Advice, Relationship Tips
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Think He’ll Propose? 17 Things You Need to Know Before You Get Married

Getting engaged is one of the happiest times of your life, for sure, but before you decide to spend the rest of your days with someone, it’s important to know that you’re really, really ready to commit. Here’s what you need to know about yourself, your guy and your relationship before you say “yes.” 1. Whether […]

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Ten Ways to Know if He’s Your Soulmate

You’re in love. Could he be the one? While there’s no comprehensive test to determine this, here are ten ways to help you figure out it he’s your soulmate: 1. There’s an inexplicable attraction. You are best friends and lovers who can’t get enough of each other. 2. You tell each other things you don’t tell anyone […]

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Relationship Tips, Relationships
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Twelve Ways to Make Your Love Last

Love that lasts is the result of partners embedding themselves in each other’s brains in a positive way. Memory circuits and pleasure get all wound up together so that the other person becomes integral to the very structure of your brain, and you become part of the structure of his. Here are the twelve steps […]

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