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Find relationship help and tips for building strong relationships while achieving personal growth. Get relationship help from the eHarmony experts.

15 ways to be a great friend

15 Ways to Be a Great Friend

It’s said that the quality of our lives is largely determined by the quality of our friendships. Your traveling companions on the journey of life can pick you up when you fall, bring out your best, and propel you forward. The surest way to have great friendships is to be a great friend. The bonus […]

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About You, Being Single, Relationship Tips
how to have a happy relationship

6 Things You Can Do to Better All of Your Relationships

We have one job in this life and that is to be authentic in who we are. It is easy to get pulled away from our commitment to ourselves in the world of relationships as we experience the demands of other people’s thoughts and expectations of who they would like us to be. The greatest gift you […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
how to create love

15 Ways to Tell if Someone is the Right Match for You

Every person looking for a great relationship knows the importance of compatibility. You want to find someone whose beliefs, interests, and goals align with your own. The level of similarity will largely determine the fulfillment and stability you enjoy (or not) over the years to come. Which brings us to a critical question: How exactly do […]

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Date Tips, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Men, Dating Tips For Women, Relationship Tips, Relationships
how to know if person is trustworthy

15 Ways to Know if Your New Partner is Trustworthy

Your new relationship is off to a positive start, and your hopes are getting higher this one may last a long time. But these days, it’s hard to know if you can really trust someone. How can you know for sure? It’s true that a person’s trustworthiness can only be measured over time, since words […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
how to argue better

The One Relationship Skill that Minimizes Arguments and Increases Closeness

Every couple argues but what distinguishes happy and unhappy couples is how they argue. There is one relationship skill that when used correctly, has a practically magical ability to calm things down, reduce tension and anger, and even increase closeness—emotional validation. Validating someone’s emotions involves taking their perspective and conveying you ‘get’ why they’re upset […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
how to tell someone you love them

15 Ways to Help Your Partner Feel Loved

You’ve fallen in love, and now you want to make sure your partner is assured that your feelings are genuine. Saying the words “I love you” is music to the ears, but there are other ways to demonstrate through actions and attitudes the feelings you have. Consider these: 1. Attend to the small stuff. When it […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
create miracles

How to Create Miracles in All of Your Relationships

Relationships can be our greatest teachers. We can find learning opportunities in all our relationships—whether family, friends or lovers. Rather than stress over challenging relationships, we can shift our perspective. Intimate connections offer us a glimpse into the darker sides of our personality that we may not always want to see. For instance, if you […]

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Dating Advice, Expert Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
relationship tips

Are You Getting in Your Own Way? Advice from Sarah, eH+ Matchmaker

Sarah is the matchmaker for eHarmony’s new service, eH+. It gives you the benefit of a personal matchmaker who picks your matches and guides you to success. It’s eHarmony’s matching + premium professional matchmaking. As the personal matchmaker for eH+, I get to spend lots of time talking to users who want a more hands-on experience in […]

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Dating Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
codependence

Are You Codependent?

In the best of circumstances, a parent will meet their child’s needs for nurturing, protection and emotional attunement in order to securely bond with them. When there is a failure to complete this process of secure bonding, codependency results. Characteristics of Codependency If you examine the characteristics of people with codependent behaviors, you will find behavior […]

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Expert Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
relationship advice and repair

The Relationship Repair Kit

Something’s wrong. You can feel it in your gut. Or your heart. Your relationship is off track. Broken. And in need of repair. You’re tempted to bury your head in the sand, doing little and hoping things will get better — but you’re smart enough to realize that unless you do something to turn things around, things […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships