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Need help with relationship problems? Find free expert advice for a wide range of relationship issues on eHarmony.

how to break up kindly

15 Ways to Exit a Relationship with Dignity

In 1962, Neil Sedaka released the song “Breaking Up is Hard to Do,” which went to number one on the Billboard charts, was translated into many languages, and eventually was covered by dozens of artists over the years. The title of that song is a phrase that has been uttered by countless people over the decades. Love and […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships
dead end relationship

15 Signs You Are in a Dead-End Relationship

Relationships usually begin with high hopes and bright expectations. The key is to not waste precious time hanging onto one that is bringing up more and more question marks. Here are signs that you’re sticking with a dead-end relationship, and it might be time to move on: 1. You have more confusion than clarity. Time should […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships
are you too close to the ex

8 Ways You Are Crossing Healthy Boundaries with the Ex

As a chocolate lover, I’d like to think you can never have too much chocolate. Similarly, I want to say you can never be too good. But I do think you can overplay a strength, particularly with an ex, and get yourself in trouble. It’s the same with chocolate, no matter how good it is, […]

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About You, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships
how to save a relationship

15 Ways to Rescue a Relationship on the Rocks

Every relationship goes through hard times. Many couples learn how to navigate through choppy waters and sail on toward a bright future together. Others, however, hit a rough spot and stay stuck, wondering if they’ve suffered irreparable damage. For dating couples, this is the time to evaluate if the relationship has run its course and it’s […]

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Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships
dating multiple people at once

15 Ways to Know If Your Partner Will Be Faithful

At the top of nearly every survey about what singles want in a partner is a person who is faithful, loyal, and trustworthy. In other words, singles in a committed relationship want someone who will not cheat on them. Unfortunately, the reality of that desire often comes to a painful end as time goes on. Accurate statistics […]

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Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
Closed store with blue metal shutters

4 Ways to End Your ‘Unofficial’ Relationship

Breaking up is hard to do … especially in the gray area of undefined relationships. A friend of mine was having trouble with a woman he was seeing. They started out as friends, and then hooked up. A couple of months later, he was no longer interested and decided to pull a slow fade away, backing out […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
whypeoplefalloutoflove

The 10 Biggest Reasons People Fall Out of Love

Love. Sometimes it doesn’t last a lifetime. Here are ten reasons why people fall out of love: 1. They stopped communicating. Conflict went unresolved, needs went unexpressed, and affirmations went unspoken. If good communication is key to building a healthy relationship, the lack of it can surely dissolve one. 2. They took each other for granted. It’s easy […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships
intimacy issues

The Intimacy Bait and Switch: Don’t Get Caught with an Intimacy Gap!

“I have a wonderful boyfriend,” wrote Anne. “He is an angel except one thing. He doesn’t talk about how he feels, he doesn’t say I love you, and on December 3rd, it will be a year. He is good to me and gentle with me but he’s never given me any kind of keepsake, not even […]

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Expert Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
wedding and marriages

When Did the Wedding Become More Important than the Marriage?

Matched Dior gowns. Orchid covered archways. Spectacular mountain settings. Magicians. Balloon releases. Fireworks. Photo booths. Wii games. Free all-night bar. Casino games. Lobster bakes, island bike rides, “event” stations where you scan a QR code to receive a secret surprise, go cart centers, yard games, massages, a multi day party on a remote Asian island. What […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
emotional affairs

Are You Having an Emotional Affair? Take this Quiz

A soul mate relationship is based on trust, commitment, and a strong desire to be together. Still, despite this powerful bond, it’s also true that your hearts will be stretched in countless ways. The danger, especially during challenging times, is that you may be vulnerable to having an emotional affair. This can damage trust and […]

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Expert Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships