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Three Surprisingly Common Marriage Mistakes that Lead to Divorce

You’ve heard of cheating and fighting leading to divorce, but what about selflessness and lack of hugs? Behaviors such as cheating and fighting are the manifestation of deeper behavior patterns that undermine marriages. These three common marriage mistakes are at the root of what make many unions fizzle: 1. Altruism Altruism, also known as selflessness […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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Seven Steps You Must Take Once a Relationship Goes Bad

Once a relationship just isn’t working anymore, we can feel it in our gut. Most of us override that feeling with rationalizing and justifying why we should stay because we have already invested a tremendous amount of time, emotion and energy. These defense mechanisms come from fear. However, they can only delay the truth for so long, and then we […]

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Expert Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships
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After the Breakup: The Most Important Thing to Do Before ‘Getting Back Out There’

As a breakup therapist, and author of the blog and book, “Getting Past Your Breakup: How To Turn A Devastating Loss Into The Best Thing That Ever Happened To You,” I receive many questions about what to do before getting back out there. My clients and readers are male and female, of all ages and […]

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Breaking Up, Expert Advice, Relationship Advice
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Six Ways to Bring Out the Best in Your Partner

Congratulations! You have found someone with whom you want to share your time, your feelings, your love; your life. You have been given a precious gift. A loving relationship is something to treasure, to nurture and cultivate. Your connection should deepen with time and allow you to evolve as a couple as well as individually. While there are many ways […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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The Relationship Repeater: How to Stop Seeking Out the Wrong Partners

Everyone has had a relationship that doesn’t work out, but not everyone repeatedly starts and ends relationships that so closely resemble the last one that failed. What separates people who have good relationships from people who have bad ones? The degree of repetition and frustration. If you’re someone who keeps feeling frustrated that you’re not […]

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About You, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips
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Three Must-Haves of Every Great Relationship

Are you living the good life? Would you like to? These are the penetrating questions that visionary psychologist Carl Rogers asked throughout his career as a passionate proponent of what he termed a “people-centered” approach to psychotherapy. He believed that everyone had the capacity to orchestrate their own change and growth and to become the […]

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About You, Expert Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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Seven Ways to Ensure Your Relationship Will Last

Author, speaker and pioneer in personal transformation, Dr. Ken Druck, and his partner, Lisette Omoss, reveal their guidelines for fostering a healthy relationship. We’ve both grown up on the job, learning from our relationships. To make our new love everything we wanted it to be, we had to take the next step. Learning how to […]

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Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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It’s Over: Should You Give Back the Engagement Ring After a Breakup?

As a relationship coach, it’s definitely not my job to publicly weigh in on celebrity disputes when I don’t even know the people involved. It is my job, however, to look for “teachable moments” and try to provide value to people that will help create more conscious, loving and productive relationships. This is one of […]

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Breaking Up, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationships
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Three Questions Every Man Must Ask Their Bride-To-Be

There are over two million marriages in the United States each year and if you are considering joining the ranks of the married, be sure that you know what you’re getting into. Before you pop the question to your beautiful bride-to-be, you may be considering all the things that make you smile about this person—great […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Tips For Men, Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
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Dating Tips from the Golden Sisters

They are the sassy, no-nonsense sisters who tackled YouTube and are now taking over the Oprah Winfrey Network with their new series (debuting June 1st at 10/9c!). We chatted with “Golden Sisters” Josie (74), Teresa (74) and Mary (82) about this exciting new chapter in their lives — and what dating advice they have to offer […]

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