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Age Differences - Does it Really Matter Anymore?

Age Differences – Does it Really Matter Anymore?

Are your ideas about dating and appropriate age ranges a thing of the past? How have modern ideas about fitness and youth affected traditional notions of who you should date?

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Seriously Flawed: Can I Still Find Love?

Seriously Flawed: Can I Still Find Love?

Having trouble finding the right match for you? Maybe it’s time to embrace your perceived “flaws.” Read on for the reasons to hold onto hope!

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Are you Addicted to Drama?

Are you Addicted to Drama?

If you love the way you feel when everything is out of control, you’re probably addicted to drama. Learn what makes a drama queen and how to avoid (or stop) being one.

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Why Do you Keep Attracting the Wrong People?

Why Do you Keep Attracting the Wrong People?

If you keep dating the same kind of person–the wrong person–it’s time to break the spell.

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Is Your Friend Really a "Frenemy"?

Is Your Friend Really a “Frenemy”?

Is your so-called friend really a “Frenemy”–a malicious person who subtly puts you down? If you suspect the answer is yes, it’s time to learn the signs and ditch that frenemy fast.

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Is it Okay to Lie About your Age, Weight, or Anything?

Is it Okay to Lie About your Age, Weight, or Anything?

In this superficial world, is it okay to fudge the numbers when it comes to your age, income or weight or is honesty the best policy?

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Should you Snitch on your Cheating Friend?

Should you Snitch on your Cheating Friend?

You are stuck between a rock and a hard place because one of your friends may be cheating on another one of your friends. Do you tell or keep your mouth shut?

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Can you be too Honest?

Can you be too Honest?

In a word: yes. Honesty may be best the policy, but that doesn’t mean you should tell it all. Learn what should be aired and what shouldn’t.

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Are Men Really the More Superficial Sex?

Are Men Really the More Superficial Sex?

Look at our discussion boards and you’ll see that men put a lot of emphasis on how their date looks. And women? Well, a study reveals that the more money their dates earn the more likely they are to get a second date. So, how do we bridge the gap?

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Fact or Myth: Is Chocolate an Aphrodisiac?

Fact or Myth: Is Chocolate an Aphrodisiac?

It’s been said that the way to most women’s hearts is through a heart-shaped box of chocolates, but is it because chocolate is an aphrodisiac?

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