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Important Questions About You

Find important personal growth questions to ask yourself. Get answers to important questions from the dating and relationship experts on eHarmony.

messyhousestillloveable

Messy House, Messy Emotions?

Now more than ever before it is hard to know for sure if a person’s public persona and appearance are an accurate reflection of who they are in private. It is easy enough to project the image of who we’d LIKE to be — with fashion choices, carefully scripted dates, cautious conversation, and even with Internet […]

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howtopresentyourbestself

Four Steps to Becoming Better Understood

Do you feel as though your strengths are what people remember? That the way you would like others to describe you is, in fact, happening most of the time? Because I’m a coach, cocktail party conversation often turns into a coaching conversation and this year’s theme has been about how to best present the “me” I […]

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singleforeverworries

‘How Can I Avoid Being Single Forever?’

A twenty-eight year old woman sat on my couch today wanting to discuss one thing and one thing only: How could she avoid being alone forever? Christy was newly single and fearing the worst for her future. Her two favorite aunts, both in their sixties, never married. Her mother had only been briefly wed to […]

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lyingonlinehowtospotthem

Putting an End to Five Big Lies We Tell Ourselves

Honesty may be the best policy, but let’s face it, everyone’s pants are on fire from time to time. And we’re not only fudging the truth with our friends, family, and coworkers—we’re also deceiving ourselves. “It’s an emotional and physical defense mechanism to distort the way we see things from time to time,” says Simon […]

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looking at oneself

‘Would I Want to Date Me?’

Give Your Love Life a Boost with Some Honest Self-Appraisal. “Know thyself.” Nobody knows for sure which ancient Greek philosopher first uttered this famous phrase. But whoever he was—Socrates, Heraclitus, Pythagoras, or a list of others you’ve never heard of—he has the honor of authoring one of the most widely quoted aphorisms of all time. Sadly, […]

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Do You Have an Emotional Sunburn?

Do You Have an Emotional Sunburn?

Yes, it’s summer – time for beaches and bathing suits. Most people love the summer; at best, I tolerate it.

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Eight Signs You May Not Be Ready for a Relationship

Eight Signs You May Not Be Ready for a Relationship

I know what you’re thinking right now. “Of course, I’m ready for a relationship. It’s what I’ve been waiting so long for! I just need to know how I can get one started!”

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Can You Rewire Your Brain for Love?

Can You Rewire Your Brain for Love?

Marsha Lucas, PhD, has become a relationship guru after listening to her patients talk about their love lives during her 20 years as a psychologist.

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The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

What do you do when you get a knot in your stomach in response to someone being subtly inauthentic, angry, judgmental, demanding or needy?

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Is Your Gut Leading - or Misleading You?

Is Your Gut Leading – or Misleading You?

One’s emotions can be helpful in pointing the way toward love—or as unreliable as a broken compass whose needle points in only one direction. That’s because lots of things influence our feelin

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