Important Questions About You

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when you feel unlovable

Ways to Deal with the ‘I’m Unlovable’ Myth

Recently, some of you took a quiz to find out what your usual way of relating to others is: Secure, or not? And if you have a Secure attachment style, celebrate and enjoy! You’re already set up to do the things that sustain love for life. But if you have a Non-Secure style, and you’d like to […]

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To Tell or Not to Tell a Friend: ‘I Don’t Like Your Partner’

A delicate, yet unfortunately common dilemma involves what to do when you don’t like a friend’s boyfriend or girlfriend. Many can relate to the internal battle between keeping your mouth shut or speaking your opinion. This is a difficult topic because emotions are involved and there is no clear-cut right or wrong answer. Naturally, there […]

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Children or No Children? That is the Question

A major issue for both men and women in finding the right relationship is whether or not children will become a part of it. If your vision centers on creating a family with children, as mine did, learning that a potential partner can’t conceive or has chosen not to have children –– or being that […]

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10 Strategies to Boost Your Mood and Enhance Your Emotional Health

Your mental health is a major component to the quality of your interactions with others. The healthier you are, the more rewarding your relationships will be. Whether you are single, casually dating, in a serious relationship, married, separated or divorced, it is important to be there for yourself instead of relying on anyone else as […]

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howtoforgivesomeone

Why Learning to Forgive is Crucial for Your Heart and Health

Did you know that unforgiveness causes you stress and can affect your health? Every time we think of those who have transgressed against us, our body responds. Blood pressure and heart rates go up. Facial muscles tense and stress hormones rise. Chronic stress may also affect the immune and cardiovascular systems. On the other hand, […]

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learningfromtragedy

What Tragedy Can Teach Us About Love

Two years ago, I was sitting in the ICU, holding the hand of my boyfriend’s best friend. His hand was warm, his skin smooth. I couldn’t take my eyes off of how seemingly healthy his body looked. He was hooked up to so many machines it was hard to tell where they stopped and where […]

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Addiction or Habit: Understanding the Difference

Most of us have hobbies or habits, but what exactly distinguishes those things from addictions? Sure, your hobbies may not seem detrimental to your well-being, but they can certainly be addictive, right? For instance, would you qualify video games as a hobby? Even if someone plays for hours each day, or forgoes sleep and human […]

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Messy House, Messy Emotions?

Now more than ever before it is hard to know for sure if a person’s public persona and appearance are an accurate reflection of who they are in private. It is easy enough to project the image of who we’d LIKE to be — with fashion choices, carefully scripted dates, cautious conversation, and even with Internet […]

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Four Steps to Becoming Better Understood

Do you feel as though your strengths are what people remember? That the way you would like others to describe you is, in fact, happening most of the time? Because I’m a coach, cocktail party conversation often turns into a coaching conversation and this year’s theme has been about how to best present the “me” I […]

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‘How Can I Avoid Being Single Forever?’

A twenty-eight year old woman sat on my couch today wanting to discuss one thing and one thing only: How could she avoid being alone forever? Christy was newly single and fearing the worst for her future. Her two favorite aunts, both in their sixties, never married. Her mother had only been briefly wed to […]

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