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Dating Advice & Relationship Advice

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5 Signs You Are Trying to Change Your Partner

Whether we like it or not, we are imperfect and our partners are too. It can be difficult to grasp that acceptance is the first step to personal growth, change, and self-improvement. We can easily get caught up in the notion of perfection, and feel miserable with ourselves when we cannot achieve it. By accepting our […]

Dating Advice

The Biggest Dating Dos and Don’ts from Our Favorite Horror Films

If you’re prepping for a first date this Halloween, keep in mind the dating wisdom offered by these classic horror movies. 1. Dating Do: Behave yourself. It’s a general rule that good girls survive. Act accordingly. 2. Dating Don’t: Get drunk. Drunk characters end up playing the fools and victims in horror flicks. You don’t want to […]

Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Tips
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Pickup Lines for the Halloween Party

If you’re dateless for this year’s neighborhood Halloween bash, bring your best costume idea to life, prime your sweet tooth, and get ready to mingle. Dressing in wacky attire might even give you that boost of courage to try one of the ghoulish day’s cheesiest pickup lines. Pickup lines for the Halloween party: 1. I’m trying […]

Dating Tips, Pickup Lines
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Are These Subconscious Mistakes Telling Your Date You’re Not Interested?

The only time you should be hard to read is during a poker game or boardroom negotiations. Your first date is not one of those times, and yet so many of us are hard to read. Unless you’re specifically telling your date, “Hey, I like you!”, they are often left looking for subtle subconscious cues […]

Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Men, Dating Tips For Women
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7 Keys to a Thriving Marriage

Not only do we think marriage is here to stay, we think marriage is better than ever (if you know the ingredients needed to keep love alive and thriving). Positive examples of marriage and long-term relationships abound — they are everywhere! Successful and long-term relationships are the single greatest contributors to social order in the […]

Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships

10 Common Reasons for Divorce

If you think that sexual infidelity is the leading cause of divorce, you’ve got it all wrong. YourTango polled over 100 of their experts to see what they say are the top reasons married couples decide to split, and, believe it or not, communication problems came out on top as the number one reason marriages fail. […]

Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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The Secret to Making a Lasting Change is…

Every January 1st, people all over the world pledge to get in shape. They get excited about making a change. They create a detailed plan for how they will reach their fitness goals within weeks or a few short months. They buy a gym membership and utilize it frequently at first.  A concerted effort is made to reach these goals. Unfortunately, it […]

About You, Being Single
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Getting Through Breast Cancer, Together

My parents have always had a beautiful, supportive marriage, but nothing has shown me just how deep their love for one another runs as going through cancer together. My dad is a colon cancer survivor and through every visit, every trial, every surgery, and every disappointment along his recovery, she has stood by his side. […]

Relationship Tips, Relationships, Success Couples Advice
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4 Ways Kindness Leads to Love

October is National Kindness Month, and while you should practice being a good person all year ‘round, if you’re inspired to make your patch of the world a little brighter, consider this month your personal challenge to act. And though you might not need another incentive to smile at strangers, pick up someone’s coffee or […]

About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Advice, Seasonal
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7 Reasons to Date Online

Last time I checked, half of marriages in the US still end in divorce. My own painful experiences strongly support statistical percentages. So where does one go to find lasting romance? And after experiencing the misery of divorce and the sheer terror of dating as a middle-aged man, what steps can one take to find […]

Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony