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rejection and how to deal

Why Rejection Isn’t All About You

When someone you care about ends a relationship, it can evoke feelings that range from disbelief to despair and everything in between. “How could this happen?” you think.

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Breaking Up, Mind, Body And Spirit, Relationships
pleasure pig

Are You a Pleasure Pig?

Our cat Yoda is nicknamed “the pleasure pig.” Yoda demands massive amounts of attention, belly rubs, cheek scratches, and snacks of his favorite baby food, which we call “Yoda’s Crack.”  The other day, I watched my husband Brian give Yoda a yoga stretching massage and silently wished that I was as good at demanding pleasure […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice
Winter and Christmas concept. Hands close-up holding a snowflake

15 Ways to Deal with the Grinches in Your Life

In 1957, the incomparable Dr. Seuss unleashed one of his most memorable characters, the scowling, green-hued Grinch. This, of course, is the cranky guy who seeks to ruin Christmas and rob others of holiday joy. The term “grinch” went on to be applied not only to the Seussian character, but to all sorts of people who […]

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About You, Date Tips, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
Heart in the bark of a tree.Tree with heart shape. Heart wooden cut texture

Single Gal Lindsay Tigar: ‘How I Survived a Couples Weekend’

Of all the places I’d like to spend my Saturday and Sunday, a scenic, romantic, quintessential rustic, sexy mountain getaway isn’t at the top of my list. Especially when that weekend happens to be the ‘Romantic Couple’s’-themed weekend. But as a woman who never backs down from a challenge, when Mohonk Mountain House in New […]

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About You, Being Single
Christmas presents with hand made decorations - crocheted flower and snowflake, pine cones, vanilla pods. DIY decorations for wrapped in craft paper gifts.

A Holiday Gift Guide for You!

While you’re busy checking your beloved friends and family off your holiday shopping list, you might be a little disappointed as you walk by the men’s section and don’t have a partner to buy for. The holiday season while merry and bright, is often a time when you’re reminded of your lack of relationship status. […]

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About You, Being Single, Seasonal
Christmas gift, happy couple with Christmas and New Year gift on street

‘Is He Really into Me?’ 3 Ways to Tell

“He loves me, he loves me not.” Do you remember playing this game when you were young? Think of all the daisies that had their petals torn off by girls (like myself) asking this all-important question. It’s a haunting refrain that is continually asked by women of every age — “How do you know if […]

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About You, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women, Important Questions
Woman hands in teal gloves are holding a mug with hot coffee or cocoa.  Winter and Christmas concept.

How to Survive Holiday Dating

Baby it’s cold outside! The holidays are here and the desire to couple up now is at an all-time high. After all it’s ‘cuffing’ season. As one who coaches singles on finding love online and as the proud dating coach of this adorable couple who just got married (who met on eHarmony), I can tell […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Advice
profile photos online dating

4 Common Mistakes Women Make with Online Dating Profile Pictures

So you’re ready to get out there. You’ve joined eHarmony, set up your profile, and now you’re looking for pictures. You realize all of your recent pictures are selfies, with friends or even worse – with your ex. You try to cut people off in the pics or blur their faces, hoping it’ll do. But […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Tips For Women, eHarmony Feature, Online Date Tips
long distance relationship tips

15 Ways to Overcome Hang-ups that Impede Lasting Love

Let’s start by agreeing that every person on earth has a hang-up or two. These are issues the dictionary defines as “a preoccupation, fixation, or psychological block; an impediment.” That last word should concern anyone who is single, since hang-ups can impede your search for love. These issues tend to be more complex and deeper […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips
relationship tips

5 Keys to Creating Relationship Respect

If there is one common theme in almost every female singer’s repertoire it is a ballad or anthem about being treated with respect. We are empowered by the music and the passion of the words, we are determined to be that woman who has equality at home. But do we actively seek and expect equality […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice, First Dates