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falling in love

Do You Believe that Finding Love is Only for a Lucky Few?

Are your mating myths holding you back? Myth #1: “Finding and keeping love is only for the lucky and the few.” Please take a moment to answer two questions: 1. If you could have a marriage or love partnership that would be happy and last your lifetime, would you want it? 2. Do you think […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
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The 10 Biggest Mistakes Made on First Dates

You walk into the restaurant and glance around nervously, scouring faces until finally you spot your date. You excitedly join them for a meal or coffee and then talk hopefully about seeing each other again. You watch your phone for the next couple of days, but to no avail. You’re disappointed and can’t help but […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Expert Advice, First Dates
man in red

Is a ‘Man in Red’ More Attractive to Women?

In my previous post and in my book, Sensation: The New Science of Physical Intelligence, I showed how the color red influences the way men perceive women. Men who saw a photo of a woman against a red background perceived her as more attractive and sexier. But what about women’s perception of men? Does red enhance the […]

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Dating Tips For Men, Expert Advice
signs he is not the one

6 Signs This is ‘Not’ The Guy for You

The endless search for lasting love can be exhausting, frustrating, and depressing. In a world dominated by social media, serial dating, and a cheating rate of 60% of all married couples, we may questions why we search. We search because we want to be in love. We want to feel that connection and safety with […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women, Expert Advice
how to practice self love

How to Create Happiness Regardless of Your Relationship Status

During the difficult moments in your life, you might find yourself desperate for the love and approval of others. You might find yourself looking for praise, support, and attention externally — relying on others (family, friends, partners, etc.) to make you feel better about yourself and your circumstances. Whether you are single or in a relationship, problems are […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice
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How to Let Go of Others (When You Really Want to Hold on Tighter!)

When friends and family members are going through a rough time, often our immediate reaction is to try to resolve the situation for them. To ease their pain. To make life better. If a romantic relationship isn’t going the way we want, a common reaction is to cling harder, trying to convince the other person […]

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About You, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit, Relationship Advice, Relationships
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Ladies, Want More Online Dates? Try a Red Background

The color red is commonly acknowledged as being linked with passion and sexuality. Eve’s red apple is a symbol of seduction. Valentine cards, symbolizing romantic love, are often red. In films, from Marilyn Monroe in ‘Niagara’ to ‘The Woman in Red’, to Jessica Rabbit, iconic in her slinky red dress, beautiful women (and rabbits) wear red. […]

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About You, Dating Tips, Expert Advice, Online Date Tips, Physical Chemistry, Sex, Using eHarmony
how to tell a friend you dont like their boyfriend

To Tell or Not to Tell a Friend: ‘I Don’t Like Your Partner’

A delicate, yet unfortunately common dilemma involves what to do when you don’t like a friend’s boyfriend or girlfriend. Many can relate to the internal battle between keeping your mouth shut or speaking your opinion. This is a difficult topic because emotions are involved and there is no clear-cut right or wrong answer. Naturally, there […]

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About You, Expert Advice, Important Questions About You
reasons to date a vegan

10 Reasons to Date a Vegan

1. Vegans are passionate people. Their passion for a cause and for a lifestyle flows into all other areas of their lives. 2. Vegans have better sex lives. Their plant-based diets can boost hormone levels. 3. They are cheap dates! Veggies and tofu cost a lot less than lobster and steak. 4. Vegans aren’t afraid to stand up for […]

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About You, Dating Advice, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
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3 Tips to Surround Yourself with Positive People

Do some people just drain the life out of you? You know, energy suckers? Believe it or not, they are direct reflections of the limiting beliefs you have about yourself. They are simply mirroring back to you the insecurities which they sense coming from you! Luckily you can change who is drawn to you and how people […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit