When you meet a new man you like, it’s tempting to think you need to actively do something to show him why he should be attracted to you and interested in you. You might think you need to show him what a great cook you are by making him a meal or helping him with a problem so that he sees that you’d make a good partner.
You’ve almost certainly heard people say this many times: “Well, you know it’s just a numbers game.” They usually mean that the more you play, the greater your chances of winning, but the insinuation is also that the quality isn’t nearly as important as the quantity. For example, people often say that sales is just a numbers game. It’s “dialing for dollars”. This implies that the harder you hit the phones making sales calls, the more you’re going to sell, regardless of how good you are at selling.
If you’re one of the many women who seem to get everything right in their life except relationships, then I’m sure lots of people are telling you that you need to get yourself out there more, or work on yourself, or even just focus on something other than dating.