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Are You a 'Dating Drainer'?

Are You a ‘Dating Drainer’?

Everyone who has spent any time in the unpredictable world of dating has experienced an occasional misfire—a promising new relationship that suddenly fizzles without an obvious explanation.

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Dating, Dating Issues
Multiple 'State of the Relationship' Talks

Signs You May Be Smothering Your Partner

There’s no such thing as loving someone too much. There is such a thing, though, as too much smothering. And smothering can definitely scare someone away.

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Dating, Dating Issues, Dating Tips
Dating a Co-Worker

Dating a Co-Worker

You know the drill. Furtive glances across the lunch room. Lingering for small talk at the water cooler. Hallway smiles and joke-swapping.

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Dating, Dating Issues, Dating Tips
Keeping Little Secrets

Keeping Little Secrets

Keeping little secrets may seem innocent enough, but they result in less intimacy, trust & integrity.

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Dating Issues
To Snoop or not to Snoop?

To Snoop or not to Snoop?

Is “checking up” on your partner a necessary precaution—or unnecessary paranoia? Does Googling your date to see what comes up qualify as snooping?

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Dating, Dating Issues
What A Man Needs To Feel With You

What A Man Needs To Feel With You

In order for a man to feel like he wants to get to know you better and eventually have a committed relationship with you, you need to build something first…You need to build a solid found

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Dating, Dating Issues
The Biggest Mistake Women Make In Dating, And What To Do Instead

The Biggest Mistake Women Make In Dating, And What To Do Instead

Once we meet a man we really like, we women tend to dive right in. We want to give our hearts, mind and very soul to a man, and meld together into a perfect relationship.

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Dating, Dating Issues
Two Big Dating Approaches to Avoid

Two Big Dating Approaches to Avoid

Is it something in the air this time of year?  I’ve been seeing more clients whose approaches to dating have not only failed them, but have left them feeling depleted and less confident. 

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Dating, Dating Issues
Dating Widow(er)s: Our User Guide

Dating Widow(er)s: Our User Guide

The dating world can be difficult to re-enter after losing a spouse.

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Dating, Dating Issues, Dating Tips
About 'Poofing'

The Real Reasons Women Go ‘Poof’

It’s one of the biggest frustrations encountered in the dating world: you meet someone, there seems to be a connection…then poof! You never hear from them again.

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Dating, Dating Issues, Dating Tips For Men