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howtoknowifsomeoneistheone

Unsure if You’ve Met ‘The One?’ Six Key Things to Consider

Compatibility is king when it comes to establishing a long-term and satisfying relationship. But even the most well-matched couples are sure to have differences, and some of these may not matter very much. If a guy prefers country music and his girlfriend likes classical, that’s a difference that may cause irritation but can probably be negotiated. If […]

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Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Important Questions, Relationship Advice
stoprepeatingpatternsinrelationships

How to Stop Repeating Past Mistakes in Love

While many of your difficulties in love are not really your fault (poor role models, dysfunctional patterns in your family growing up, etc.), it is your responsibility to move beyond them. The good news is that you can absolutely get past those old patterns in love and attract someone who will meet you on even […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Expert Advice
howtoknowifsomeoneisoveranex

Eight Signs They’re Not over Their Ex

Your new squeeze recently got out of a relationship. Here are eight signs your date is not over his/her ex. 1. He talks about his ex too much. Every time you see him, he mentions his ex a handful of times. Whether he’s waxing poetic about the good times, bashing her character or just dropping casual […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Important Questions
whyyoucantbefriendsafterarelationshipends

Ten Reasons You Can’t Be Friends when the Relationship is Over

“Let’s be friends.” It’s an easy line to drop during a break up, as it intends to ease the pain of a breaking heart. But should you be friends with your ex? Here are 10 reasons why you can’t be friends when the relationship is over: 1. It’s torture. You’re hanging out “as friends.” He does […]

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Breaking Up, Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Relationship Advice, Relationships
signssomeoneisanarcissist

Ten Signs You Are With a Narcissist

Are you falling in love with someone who is too in love with themselves to love you back? Here are 10 signs you’re with a narcissist: 1. He exaggerates his achievements. Sure, we all want tend to upsell our accomplishments from time to time. But if your date can’t talk about his life without dropping plenty […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Important Questions, Relationship Problems
datingforsingleparent

Dating Don’ts for the Single Parent

Hoping your new love interest gets along with your cat is one thing. But for single parents looking to blend not just lives (and pets) but entire families, dating takes on an entirely new level of complexity. You have more than your own current and future well-being to think about; you have the current and […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues
idontknowwhatiwant

What ‘I Don’t Know What I Want’ Really Means!

Your date just said “I don’t know what I want” during a heart-to-heart over dinner. If you’re not sure what he/she meant by that, considering the following common definitions for the phrase. Be warned: It’s rarely a good thing for the relationship. Defined: I don’t want you — now or ever. This is probably the […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips
whopaysonadate

Going Dutch on a Date: Good Idea?

Over the last couple of weeks, I have been asking my friends (both men and women) who paid and who should pay for first dates. Almost everyone said men in their experience paid for first dates, although most of my women friends added that they reached for the wallet and offered to chip in. The one person […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Important Questions
anxietyanddatingtips

Freeing Your Heart from Anxiety: How to Overcome Dating Worries

How does one even think about going on a date if they suffer from anxiety? We took this question (and some others!) to Dr. Tamar Chansky, Ph.D., author of the new book Freeing Yourself from Anxiety, for her advice about this difficult issue.  eH: First dates can rattle anyones nerves, but if one suffers from anxiety it […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Expert Advice
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Life After Divorce: Avoiding a Huge Mistake

Making a good adjustment to life after divorce sounds simple: (1) Create and use a good support network to help you release the emotional impact of your divorce, (2) redefine yourself with a new life purpose, (3) set and start pursuing new goals for your health, wealth, love, and self-expression, and, if you have kids, […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Issues