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15 Reasons to Date a Bartender

If the cute bartender at your local watering hole has asked for your number, don’t be scared of saying yes to a date when he or she finally calls. (Not all bartenders are players. We promise.) Here are 15 reasons to date a bartender: 1. Free drinks. 2. Matt Damon did. He met his wife, Luciana Barroso, […]

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Sure, you’re having a great time together a few times a month, but do you really know where you stand, relationship-wise? Is one of you hoping it will turn into marriage and kids while the other is commitment-phobic and enjoys seeing more than one person at a time? 

After a few dates, sit down to discuss your thoughts on relationships, commitment, and how you’d define where you currently are — and where you might be headed.

Ten Things You Need to Know About the Person You’re Dating

Seeing someone new? Date intentionally. As you laugh at the same movies and share decadent desserts, make sure you’re getting to know important details of each other’s lives, too. Here are 10 things you need to know about the person you’re dating (and some good questions to ask!):

Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Important Questions

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Five Must-Haves for a Good Dating Life

According to Statistic Brain, as of June 2013, there are over 54 million single people in the United States and 40 million who have tried online dating. It is almost daunting to think about so many people who may be dating or interested in finding a long-term partner. Having been divorced in my late 30s, I […]

About You, Dating Advice, Dating Tips
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How to Create Your Soulmate Wish List

For the past twelve years my soulmate Brian and I have been blissfully married. But I have to admit that there were moments along the way when I doubted he would ever come. Even though I had an amazing life, wonderful friends, and a successful career, at 43 I found myself still single with no […]

About You, Being Single, Dating Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit

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15 Reasons to Date a Cancer

Cancers have an unfair reputation of being moody. Contrarily, their emotional nature can make them great empathetic and supportive partners. Here are 15 reasons to date a Cancer: 1. Cancers value “roots” and take pleasure in the comforts of family, tradition and home. 2. Cancers are emotional and sensitive. They can easily sympathize and empathize with others. […]

Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Mind, Body And Spirit
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Nine Ways to Avoid Online Dating Burnout

For the vast majority of people, life is hectic, stressful, and exhausting. With pressure at work, weekend obligations, household chores, kids and/or parents to care for, who has time to date? Or even if you have the time, do you have the energy to meet new people while feeling present and engaged in the process? […]

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When Anxiety Strikes During Your Date: Six Ways to Manage It

Getting through a first date is a common source of anxiety and worry for many. There may be urges to avoid dating altogether or settle for someone who you don’t ultimately see a future with. There is really good news though. If you are willing to learn from each dating experience, manage expectations and recover from some […]

Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, First Dates
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After Your Partner’s Affair: Dealing with the Rollercoaster Ride of Emotions

If you’re lucky, you’ll never have to know what it’s like to be the victim of infidelity. Still, the statistics aren’t promising: About 60 percent of men and 40 percent of women will have an affair at some point in their marriages. If you’ve been the victim of an affair, you know that it hits […]

Dating Advice, Infidelity, Relationship Problems, Relationships

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It’s Over: Should You Give Back the Engagement Ring After a Breakup?

As a relationship coach, it’s definitely not my job to publicly weigh in on celebrity disputes when I don’t even know the people involved. It is my job, however, to look for “teachable moments” and try to provide value to people that will help create more conscious, loving and productive relationships. This is one of […]

Breaking Up, Dating Advice, Relationship Advice, Relationships
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15 Reasons to Date a Gemini

Don’t fear the Twins’ dual nature. Say yes when your Gemini crush asks you out. Here are 15 reasons to date a Gemini: 1. That famous dual nature? It makes Geminis highly adaptable and versatile. They can look at a problem or situation from different perspectives. 2. Geminis have a strong sense of self. They won’t depend […]

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