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Being Single

Being single is a great chance for personal growth and development. Enjoy the single life and prepare yourself for a relationship with advice on eHarmony.

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Unlocking Dating Myths: ‘Love Only Happens When You’re Not Looking.’

Two days ago on Facebook, I saw this post: “Not looking anymore. If it’s meant to be, love will happen.” It was littered with likes. Folks, there is a word for people over age 25 or so who wait for love to happen to them, and that word is “single.” Yet people keep believing love […]

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About You, Being Single, Dating Tips, Expert Advice
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Rob and Kristen Bell: How to Create the Zimzum of Love

So, you’re dating. You’re meeting people, you’re getting to know them, you’re wondering whether one of these people you’re meeting is The One you could commit to. You’re doing this because you want to share your life with someone, you want someone to witness to your life while you are witness to theirs, you want […]

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About You, Being Single, Dating Tips, Expert Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
gratitude and being single

Single, and Frustrated: 5 Things to Consider

One of the most frustrating issues singles face and contemplate is a lack of understanding about why they are single despite feeling as though they are doing everything “right” to find a partner. They might be using multiple avenues to meet potential matches, working to better themselves, engaging in social and community events, etc. However, […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice
how to find a soulmate

4 Strategies to Attract Your Soul Mate

The term “soul mate,” amor platonicus, was coined in the 15th century by Florentine scholar Marsilio Ficini, but the concept has appeared in many cultures since ancient times. The oldest record dates back five thousand years to the Egyptian legend of Osiris and Isis. Brother and sister, husband and wife, their eternal love lasted a […]

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About You, Being Single, Dating Tips, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
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15 Reasons to Date a Vampire

If you’re ever going to say yes to a date with a vampire, October’s the month to do it. Here are 15 reasons to date a vampire: 1. Vampires are always cold. Your date won’t whine about the changing temperatures. 2. Move over, pointy-eared, Nosferatu! In recent years, vampires have become much better looking. See: […]

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About You, Being Single, Seasonal
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15 Reasons to Date a Runner

You see them pounding the pavement or bounding down the pathway. Runners are part of our society’s landscape, jogging to stay in shape, participate in clubs, or train for competition. There are lots of reasons to admire people who devote themselves to running regularly. Let us add one more reason to the list—these people often […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Tips, Mind, Body And Spirit
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How to Feel Good About Dating

Let’s pause for a moment, and think about how you would describe your experience of dating. What’s the emotion that the word “dating” brings up for you? What experiences, past or present do you think about? Each person brings a different perspective to dating. Yours is based on what you’ve been through, what you’re feeling […]

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Being Single, Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Expert Advice, First Dates
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True or False: ‘Before You Can Be Happy with Someone Else, You Have to Be Happy by Yourself.’

Have you ever been told you haven’t found love because you need it too much? That you have to be happy by yourself first? Or have you said these things to yourself? These myths sound so plausible. It’s actually true that we can’t love others more than we love ourselves, and we need to love […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice
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15 Ways to Make an Ordinary Day Extraordinary

Most of us look forward to big events — birthdays, job promotions, a party — to consider a day very special. That makes sense. But the danger in waiting for momentous events is that we might miss the simple joys and delights of ordinary days. Here’s a reminder that each day can be extraordinary if […]

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About You, Being Single, Mind, Body And Spirit
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3 Ways to Impress Anyone

What makes someone influential? One of the most common responses we hear is charisma—being able to connect, charm, and win over others with one’s personality. The thing is, charisma is not something you’re born with. It’s something you learn. If you want to be the person everyone wants more of, the following lessons will help […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit