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Being single is a great chance for personal growth and development. Enjoy the single life and prepare yourself for a relationship with advice on eHarmony.

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15 Ways to Make Sure You Are ‘Relationship Material’

Perhaps you’ve heard it said that the best way to attract a fabulous partner is to BE a fabulous partner. To take that principle a step further, if you want to attract someone who is magnificent “marriage material,” make sure that YOU are magnificent marriage material. Here’s how to know if this applies to you: 1. You […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Advice
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4 Ways to Handle Loneliness This Time of Year

While this time of year brings excitement and joy, it also typically brews sadness, loneliness, jealousy, disappointment, and anxiety. These feelings can become especially overwhelming as you reflect on your life circumstances and come to terms with being single. So, why does this season bring up difficult emotions, particularly loneliness? Holidays breed high expectations and anticipation as there […]

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About You, Being Single, Breaking Up, Date Tips, Expert Advice
pleasure pig

Are You a Pleasure Pig?

Our cat Yoda is nicknamed “the pleasure pig.” Yoda demands massive amounts of attention, belly rubs, cheek scratches, and snacks of his favorite baby food, which we call “Yoda’s Crack.”  The other day, I watched my husband Brian give Yoda a yoga stretching massage and silently wished that I was as good at demanding pleasure […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice
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Single Gal Lindsay Tigar: ‘How I Survived a Couples Weekend’

Of all the places I’d like to spend my Saturday and Sunday, a scenic, romantic, quintessential rustic, sexy mountain getaway isn’t at the top of my list. Especially when that weekend happens to be the ‘Romantic Couple’s’-themed weekend. But as a woman who never backs down from a challenge, when Mohonk Mountain House in New […]

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About You, Being Single
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A Holiday Gift Guide for You!

While you’re busy checking your beloved friends and family off your holiday shopping list, you might be a little disappointed as you walk by the men’s section and don’t have a partner to buy for. The holiday season while merry and bright, is often a time when you’re reminded of your lack of relationship status. […]

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About You, Being Single, Seasonal
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How to Survive Holiday Dating

Baby it’s cold outside! The holidays are here and the desire to couple up now is at an all-time high. After all it’s ‘cuffing’ season. As one who coaches singles on finding love online and as the proud dating coach of this adorable couple who just got married (who met on eHarmony), I can tell […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Advice
long distance relationship tips

15 Ways to Overcome Hang-ups that Impede Lasting Love

Let’s start by agreeing that every person on earth has a hang-up or two. These are issues the dictionary defines as “a preoccupation, fixation, or psychological block; an impediment.” That last word should concern anyone who is single, since hang-ups can impede your search for love. These issues tend to be more complex and deeper […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips
relationship tips

5 Keys to Creating Relationship Respect

If there is one common theme in almost every female singer’s repertoire it is a ballad or anthem about being treated with respect. We are empowered by the music and the passion of the words, we are determined to be that woman who has equality at home. But do we actively seek and expect equality […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice, First Dates
taking care of yourself better

4 Ways to Heal Yourself from Exhaustion

It’s a sad state of affairs that the average modern woman feels completely exhausted most of the time. The great irony is being in that exhausted space, the LAST thing you have time to do (or truthfully want to do) is take care of yourself. And I’m not just talking about doing chores like paying […]

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About You, Being Single, Mind, Body And Spirit
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4 Tips for Conscious Dating: How to Go from Dating to a Relationship

Dating is a dance of harmony and attraction. Being attracted to someone physically is a subjective matter. While matching your desired criteria has become electronically possible through computer software, it certainly does not guarantee you a harmonious relationship. That part is up to you. In my own life, and in my work with others, I […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice