Here’s what I know for sure: finding true love is possible for anyone at any age if you’re willing to prepare your self, on all levels, to become a magnet for love.
This wonderful Universe of ours is set up to deliver the people and things we draw to us that our consistent with our personal belief system. If you don’t believe you will ever find the one for you, then, guess what? You get to be right…you probably won’t. If, however, you learn to believe that the one is not only out there but is also looking for you, then true love can be yours.
The basic law of attraction states that you will attract to you those things that match your state of belief. Believing that your soul mate is out there is critical to the preparation of manifestation.
I believe that the Universe is always mirroring back to us our beliefs about our selves and the world. If we believe the world is a loving and friendly place, then most of the time that will be our experience. But, if we believe the world is a chaotic, stressful and fearful place, then that becomes our reality. So, believing and knowing that your soul mate is out there is the most important part of the formula.
What if I told you that it’s not your job to know how your soul mate is going to appear? What if I told you it’s only your job to be ready, willing and open to love. Think about it this way: you really don’t know where air comes from but you do believe that it’s always there for you, right?
The same is true for love. It’s there for you. It’s always been there for you. You just need to remember the love that you are and once you do, the Universe will deliver to you the perfect soul mate.
Here is what worked for me and I know it can work for you: When I was in my early forties I decided to manifest my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about manifestation, psychology, spirituality, and the law of attraction. My intentions became crystal clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house AND in my heart. I learned and invented techniques, rituals, visualizations and prayers that helped me prepare my body, mind, spirit and home for an amazing relationship. And they worked. I met my husband, Brian, who has exceeded all of my desires and expectations. He was and is everything I ever wished for.
Big love is possible for any one of any age if you are willing to become a magnet for love. Continue to live each day in the knowingness that you are in a loving, committed relationship as you savor the waiting for your beloved to arrive.
The happily married couples I know didn’t just “get lucky.” Most of them invested time and energy in their own personal growth. They worked on themselves via therapy, coaches, workshops, books and seminars. They studied themselves and they studied “love.” They became experts in their own issues and evolved as individuals. And then, once they met and married their soulmate, they didn’t stop. They attended couples workshops, and read books on how to make a relationship really sing.
I am telling you this because if you truly want love, you need to make the investment of time, energy and yes, sometimes even money. Here’s a simple analogy: For those of you who love to cook…chances are you have more than one cookbook in your kitchen. You are always looking for “new” recipes. And, you don’t expect to always get a recipe right on the first try. You know that sometimes practice makes perfect. It’s like that in love as well.
I believe it is important that you first and foremost make a commitment to yourself to become the best you possible while you also manifest the best possible soulmate for yourself.
So, I encourage you to make an investment in yourself…spending your life with your best friend and lover is so worth it! With that in mind, please join me for a F*R*E*E* online seminar: “3 Keys to Manifesting True Love.” It starts Thursday, May 16th, at 5:00pm Pacific. It might make all the difference in helping you find your Soulmate!
Arielle Ford has spent the past 25 years living and promoting consciousness through all forms of media. She is the author of THE SOULMATE SECRET: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction (Harper One). She lives in La Jolla, CA with her husband, Brian Hilliard. Follow her on Facebook!