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For singles, personal growth is an important part of dating and building relationships. eHarmony brings you expert advice for your personal development.

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10 Steps to Eliminating Resentment in Your Day

Most of us have experienced some level of resentment at one point or another in our lives. Resentment can spiral out of control, fester and begin to take over our thoughts, actions and even our well-being. Resentment can overwhelm our innate sense of joy and ease. How can we overcome these feelings and regain contentment and peace of […]

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Do You Have What It Takes to Be a Great Dating Partner?

You’re looking for someone special. You’ve probably got your must-have/can’t-stand list that describes exactly what you’re looking for. Now’s a great time to take a look at yourself as well. Do you have what it takes to be a great dating partner? How “dateable” you are depends, in part, on your goals for dating. If, […]

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Dr. Wayne Dyer: Dating, Desire and Attracting Love

Dr. Wayne Dyer: Dating, Desire and Attracting Love

Dr. Wayne Dyer, spiritual teacher, author and internationally renowned lecturer in the field of self-development, has never really applied his uplifting principles to the art of romantic relationships, but he agreed to try just that in this exclusive interview for us.

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Six Reasons Your ‘Relationship Picker’ May Be Broken

Attraction is a concept that has been studied extensively, but even so, most people don’t know exactly why they are attracted to someone aside from basic personality or physical traits. In dating and relationships, you may look back and determine that you picked the “wrong” partner. Maybe you chose someone who looked good on paper, but was lacking […]

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How to Turn Your ‘Flirting Switch’ On

Through my research, I’ve found that there are five distinct and unique ways of flirting: Playful, Physical, Polite, Sincere, and Traditional. We are all a combination of the five styles, but we have one or two dominant flirting styles. What does this mean for your love life? A lot, it turns out. How you flirt […]

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Ten Ways to Bring Love into Your Dating Life

So many clients of mine want to know how to find “the one” who will fill that emptiness in their hearts. They’re desperate to have the happily-ever-after fairy tale love they grew up believing was possible. But after months and often years of searching for that special someone, they’re frustrated and disappointed with what’s shown […]

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Austenland: Our Date Night Movie Pick

While it may be true that every little girl dreams of finding her prince one day, there is another whole group of fanatic Jane Austen fans who are willing to forswear their prince if they can only latch on to their very own Mr. Darcy. If you are among the latter group, we have a date-night movie […]

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Ten Ways to Increase Your Self-Esteem

Do you ever feel as though you’re waiting for someone to love and appreciate you? Do you feel “less than” because you are single and other people in your life are in relationships? Do you find that you wait for others to recognize your accomplishments before being proud of them yourself? Do you struggle to […]

About You, Mind, Body And Spirit

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Bad Date? Five Reasons to Not Lose Any Sleep Over It

Learning to listen to your intuition is invaluable when it comes to dating. It can feel as though we are alone at times, navigating through turbulent waters as emotional experiences. Relationships bring out our stuff. As you tap into your intuition, you can remain confident and happy while testing the waters in the ocean that […]

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Ten Things I Can’t Live Without

Love is so much bigger than romance. We thought it was important to celebrate all of the types of love in our lives. From Deepak Chopra to Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, read on as some of the most inspirational (and coolest!) people we know share the things they just can’t live without. Ten things, to be exact (in most […]

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