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For singles, personal growth is an important part of dating and building relationships. eHarmony brings you expert advice for your personal development.

on the inside that counts

Matching the Outside to the Inside

Did you get dressed this morning? Yes, of course you did, because in our society you can’t be naked. And even if you could, I think most of us would opt for clothing. After showering or brushing your teeth, dressing is probably the first thing you do every day. But have you ever stopped to […]

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Judge Lynn Toler: The Biggest Mistakes People Make in Dating and Relationships

The audience for “Divorce Court” is up almost 50 percent from last year and a big part of the attraction is the common-sense approach taken by its presiding judge, Lynn Toler, who began overseeing the drama of separating couples in 2006. Naturally, Toler has learned a lot from her eight years on the bench of […]

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The 15 Best Movie Boyfriends of All Time

Listen, we know that it’s unfair to compare our real-life romantic partners to the leading men we see on film. But every once in a while, is it so wrong to dream about ditching our husbands or boyfriends and running off to live with Lloyd Dobler from “Say Anything …”? Yeah, it probably is. But […]

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Have a Rom Com Movie Bingo Night!

If you’re looking for a fun and flirty evening to share with friends, we’ve got just the ticket—a night of Rom Com Movie Bingo! We’ve created a set of free downloadable bingo cards that include familiar romantic comedy moments like “first kiss,” “the break-up,” and even the classic “girlfriend gossip session.” As you watch the film, […]

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Healing Your Heart for Valentine’s Day

Every Valentine’s Day in the United States as well as many other places in the world, flowers, candy, gifts and kisses are exchanged. It is a day of love and romance for those already in a relationship. For those single, it is a day of hope, as well as a day when the absence of […]

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How to Take Control of Negative Thinking

Negative thinking patterns make life less satisfying as they keep you stuck in what’s wrong versus what’s right. Negative thinking commonly gets in the way of what you really want. It leaves you feeling empty, dissatisfied and unsettled. When your glass is half empty, it’s nearly impossible to see the good, the potential or silver linings and […]

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In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes to Loneliness

In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes to Loneliness

Desperately lonely but not quite ready for another relationship? Here are 10 things to do.

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How to Leave Your Past Behind — and Find New Love

2014 is here and there is no better time to leave your past behind to achieve a healthier, happier relationship now and in the future. When it comes to relationships, the past can feel so heavy. Holding onto old hurts can actually cause physical stress, sore muscles, body aches, as well as fatigue and sadness. Take a minute and […]

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Five Keys to Love and Longevity

Some of my most basic rules to living a good long life have everything to do with relationships. We are, after all, social creatures that crave companionship. It’s a well-documented fact, for instance, that married people just live longer than their single counterparts. And it turns out that love and longevity have a lot in […]

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Valuable Lessons from ‘The Secret Life of Walter Mitty’

Spoiler alert: this article reveals some important things that happen in the movie. I believe this movie has a chance to be a long-term classic. It will become a classic if people figure out what the movie is really about. I feel that the purpose of ‘The Secret Life of Walter Mitty’ is not to […]

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