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For singles, personal growth is an important part of dating and building relationships. eHarmony brings you expert advice for your personal development.

The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

What do you do when you get a knot in your stomach in response to someone being subtly inauthentic, angry, judgmental, demanding or needy?

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About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
Twenty Seconds of Courage

Twenty Seconds of Courage

The recent movie ‘We Bought a Zoo’ is an adaptation of the true story of Benjamin Mee and his children.

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About You, Dating Advice
How to Create the Right Attitude for Dating Success

How to Create the Right Attitude for Dating Success

How a man feels about himself deep inside — also known as his “inner game” — is his key to finding and building a great relationship.

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About You, Dating Advice
Why Holding On to Your Ex Means Holding Off on Your Life

Why Holding On to Your Ex Means Holding Off on Your Life

Neil Sedaka had it right. Breaking up IS hard to do. But WHY is it so hard? Because we are sentimental beings, desiring of connection.

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About You, Expert Advice
Paul Tacorian: What I've Learned About Love

Paul Tacorian: What I’ve Learned About Love

King of bling Paul Tacorian, of the famed Tacori jewelry, is around couples in love all the time.

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About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
Is Your Gut Leading - or Misleading You?

Is Your Gut Leading – or Misleading You?

One’s emotions can be helpful in pointing the way toward love—or as unreliable as a broken compass whose needle points in only one direction. That’s because lots of things influence our feelin

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About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
Six Ways to Be Your Own Valentine

Six Ways to Be Your Own Valentine

Dateless on February 14th? Why not be your own valentine this year?

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About You
In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes to Loneliness

In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes to Loneliness

Desperately lonely but not quite ready for another relationship? Here are 10 things to do.

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice
Picture Perfect

Our Favorite Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Have fun this heartfelt holiday by honoring those you love. From the creative to the crafty, we’re sharing our favorite tokens of affection.

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About You, Seasonal
How Attractive are You...Credit Speaking?

How Attractive are You…Credit Speaking?

Take a long look in the mirror; is there more to you than meets the eye? Of course! That may be the stupidest question ever committed to written word.

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About You, Expert Advice