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15 ways to get along with anyone

15 Ways to Get Along with Nearly Anyone

Much of success in life hinges upon the ability to relate well to others. In preschool, we were told to “Play nice … share … treat others as you want to be treated.” Those basic people skills apply to grown-ups just as much, whether dealing with neighbors, clients, coworkers, or roommates. And especially potential romantic […]

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reasons to date a painter

15 Reasons to Date a Painter

Working up the courage to ask that cute painter out for coffee? Just do it. Here are 15 reasons to date a painter: 1. Who wouldn’t want to be a muse? 2. Painters are self-disciplined, passionate, and motivated. 3. Your date might challenge the way you look at the world around you. 4. You’ll be exposed to a whole […]

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Do You Believe that Finding Love is Only for a Lucky Few?

Are your mating myths holding you back? Myth #1: “Finding and keeping love is only for the lucky and the few.” Please take a moment to answer two questions: 1. If you could have a marriage or love partnership that would be happy and last your lifetime, would you want it? 2. Do you think […]

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15 reasons to date an esthetician

15 Reasons to Date an Esthetician

An esthetician is more than just a pretty face. Here are 15 reasons to date one: 1. Estheticians have great skin. It’s part of the job. Your date doesn’t slack off in the self-care department and likely embraces a healthy lifestyle. 2. Because of #1, your date is going to age fantastically. 3. And if you stick around […]

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dating while unemployed

Dating While Unemployed: 5 Things to Remember

It happens. And it happens to good people. We get fired, laid off, or decide it’s time to move on to the next job. This can be good news or scary, but either way life goes on and you don’t want your love life to stop just because you’re in ‘job transition’. These five tips […]

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reasons to date a dog groomer

15 Reasons to Date a Dog Groomer

If you find yourself taking your dog to the groomer more often than you need to, maybe you need to finally work up the nerve to ask her out for dinner. Here are 15 reasons to date a dog groomer: 1. You’ll know your date is a dog person… 2. …and probably won’t hate your dog. Or […]

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Terry Crews: How to Be a Better Man in Love and Marriage

Terry Crews is on a serious roll these days! He is starring in FOX’s hit comedy, “Brooklyn Nine-Nine;” has several films in the can including “The Expendables 3,” “Aztec Warrior” and “Reach Me;” and he is the new host of “Who Wants To Be a Millionaire.” Life wasn’t always this first-rate for the former NFL […]

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5 Reasons to ‘Date’ Yourself

Imagine knowing yourself on a deeper, more gratifying, less judgmental level. Imagine being able to describe yourself to others while being empowered by your strengths and experiences and not cringing at the thought of your weaknesses and struggles. Imagine taking care of yourself, owning your needs and treating yourself with the love and nurturance you […]

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gratitude

How Gratitude Can Change Your Love Life

Gratitude is magical. It has the power to transform your love life. When your heart is open, you have more meaningful connections with dates and partners, you think positively and feel good about yourself, and enjoy the ups and downs of your love life more. Opening your heart to gratitude lets you come from a […]

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ways to be content

14 Ways to Experience Contentment Today

Lots of people and organizations offer the “secret” to lasting contentment. And why not? This is a quality everyone desires but few seem to achieve. Consider the possibility there’s no secret—no surefire formula or magic elixir—needed to experience contentment, but rather simple shifts in attitude and action that anyone can implement. This doesn’t mean that […]

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