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Filmmaker Ken Burns: What I've Learned About History, Love and Myself

One of the qualities that has made Ken Burns into a multi-Emmy Award-winning documentarian is his fascination with stories about people...

15 Self-Esteem Boosters

The term “self-esteem” may be somewhat overused these days. That’s hard to avoid when it appears everywhere we turn—in ads,...

Why Forgiveness is so Critical in Every Relationship

Forgiveness in its most basic sense is letting go of the desire, the need, and the “right” to require punishment or restitution...

When the Going Gets Rough: The Path Back to Joy and Healing

Peace, joy, and gratitude – feelings we all wish for, but ones that can be hard to come by in our stressful world. When we're bombarded...

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Matching the Outside to the Inside

Did you get dressed this morning? Yes, of course you did, because in our society you can’t be naked. And even if you could, I think most of us would opt for clothing. After showering or brushing your teeth, dressing is probably the first thing you do every day. But have you ever stopped to […]

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Judge Lynn Toler: The Biggest Mistakes People Make in Dating and Relationships

The audience for “Divorce Court” is up almost 50 percent from last year and a big part of the attraction is the common-sense approach taken by its presiding judge, Lynn Toler, who began overseeing the drama of separating couples in 2006. Naturally, Toler has learned a lot from her eight years on the bench of […]

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The 15 Best Movie Boyfriends of All Time

Listen, we know that it’s unfair to compare our real-life romantic partners to the leading men we see on film. But every once in a while, is it so wrong to dream about ditching our husbands or boyfriends and running off to live with Lloyd Dobler from “Say Anything …”? Yeah, it probably is. But […]

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Have a Rom Com Movie Bingo Night!

If you’re looking for a fun and flirty evening to share with friends, we’ve got just the ticket—a night of Rom Com Movie Bingo! We’ve created a set of free downloadable bingo cards that include familiar romantic comedy moments like “first kiss,” “the break-up,” and even the classic “girlfriend gossip session.” As you watch the film, […]

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Healing Your Heart for Valentine’s Day

Every Valentine’s Day in the United States as well as many other places in the world, flowers, candy, gifts and kisses are exchanged. It is a day of love and romance for those already in a relationship. For those single, it is a day of hope, as well as a day when the absence of […]

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How to Take Control of Negative Thinking

Negative thinking patterns make life less satisfying as they keep you stuck in what’s wrong versus what’s right. Negative thinking commonly gets in the way of what you really want. It leaves you feeling empty, dissatisfied and unsettled. When your glass is half empty, it’s nearly impossible to see the good, the potential or silver linings and […]

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