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Ways to Deal with the 'I'm Unlovable' Myth

Recently, some of you took a quiz to find out what your usual way of relating to others is: Secure, or not? And if you have a Secure...

15 Reasons to Date a Martial Artist

The martial arts have been around for centuries and are thriving more than ever. Some people are drawn to the spectacle of televised...

15 Reasons to Date One of Santa's Elves

If a short man with pointy shoes who smells like candy canes asks you out this holiday season, don’t be put off by his enthusiasm...

'Would My Deceased Spouse Be Okay with Me Dating?'

There is one fact with which I must begin any article about the afterlife, and it is that we do not know all the answers. Having said...

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15 Ways to Cultivate Gratitude

Given the choice, nearly everyone would want to be known as a grateful person rather than an ungrateful one. After all, the most attractive people are those whose attitude is saturated by thankfulness. Several large-scale research studies have shown that grateful people live longer, sleep better, enjoy more career success, and have richer relationships. But it’s […]

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Tackling the Biggest Dating Myth: ‘I’m Unlovable’

“I’m unlovable.” How many times have you heard someone say that? Or, “I don’t really need anyone but me,” or, “My partners always suffocate me.” In many cases, these assertions are personal myths—stories people tell themselves that aren’t based on fact, but on perceptions dictated by their attachment style. To uncover your own personal mythology, […]

About You, Being Single, Expert Advice

self esteem and relationships

5 Ways to Lessen that Relationship Baggage (and Improve Self-Esteem)

Your relationships with others mirror your relationship with yourself. The way you feel about yourself directly influences the quality of your relationships with others, as well as your behaviors and roles. With a healthy view of yourself that includes self-acceptance, self-love, forgiveness, and insight, dating and relationships will feel easier, more satisfying, and more loving. […]

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15 Ways to Make This Your Best Thanksgiving Ever

The beauty of Thanksgiving is that it gives us a chance to push the pause button on our busy lives and reflect on the blessings we have, the people we love, and the freedoms we enjoy. Since you have reached adulthood, you’ve got many Thanksgiving holidays in your history. Most were probably delightful, perhaps some […]

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Twenty Seconds of Courage

Twenty Seconds of Courage

The recent movie ‘We Bought a Zoo’ is an adaptation of the true story of Benjamin Mee and his children.

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6 Ways to Eliminate Toxic Love and Attract Healthy Love

If you’re tired of doing all the right things yet still end up with emotional manipulators or moody, toxic partners who are unable to love, you need to make happiness a priority and choose to learn to love in a different way. Below are six key concepts you need to attract healthy love and eliminate […]

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