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For singles, personal growth is an important part of dating and building relationships. eHarmony brings you expert advice for your personal development.

single and lonely in december

5 Ways to Combat Loneliness This Time of Year

While this season brings excitement, spirit, and joy, it also typically brews sadness, loneliness, jealousy, discomfort, disappointment, and anxiety for many of us. These feelings can become especially overwhelming as you reflect on your life circumstances and come to terms with being single. So, why does this time of year bring up difficult emotions, particularly […]

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About You, Being Single, Mind, Body And Spirit

Want an Amazing Life? It’s All in Your Head

Positive thoughts are accompanied by positive changes in your body’s biochemistry. Negative thoughts, on the other hand, tend to depress both your immunity and your mood. And remember that both types of thoughts tend to attract their physical equivalents. That is why getting a handle on the quality of your daily thoughts—and choosing them more […]

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About You, Being Single, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit, What I've Learned About Love
forget about old love

15 Ways to Get an Old Love Out of Your Head

When a relationship comes to an end, the process of healing and moving on hopefully begins. The person you’re trying to let go of may be a recent part of your love life or an old flame. Now comes the task of wiping the slate clean, so you’ll be ready when a new partner enters your […]

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About You, Being Single, Breaking Up
how to deal with lifes hassles

15 Ways to Get a Handle on Life’s Hassles

We’ve all had them — one of “those” days. And for singles, having one of “those” days might include one of “those” dates. Bad days–and the occasional bad date–are unavoidable. Here are 15 effective ways to better handle life’s hassles: 1. Identify your style. Are you a night owl or a morning lark? Are you […]

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About You, Being Single, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
womenanddating

6 Reasons Women Today Have the Power that Counts the Most

Over the last several years, as an author, educator, and mentor of women, I have analyzed marriage from a multiplicity of angles—that is from material written by professional governmental, educational, and faith-based sociologists, scientists, and psychologists, as well as journalists, philosophers, and novelists. What strikes me overall is how each source (regardless of the author’s […]

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About You, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women
love yourself

What Prevents You from Loving Yourself?

In your daily life, are you guided by fear or love? What are the fears that block being loving to yourself and others? How often is the question, “What is loving to myself and others– what is in my highest good and the highest good of another?” the question that guides your actions? Is there something […]

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About You, Being Single, Mind, Body And Spirit
happy and single

10 Things Happy Singles Do Every Day

Happy single people are just like happy coupled people. Yep, you read that right! Why? Because we know one of the greatest — and simplest — secrets in life. Every day, we get to hang out with the most amazing person we know … ourselves!And this doesn’t change when we find our perfect someone, because […]

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About You, Being Single
sense of humor

15 Reasons a Sense of Humor Makes You Hot

Almost every person has “sense of humor” high on the list of things they want in a partner. You know, of course, what you like about another’s person ability to be funny. But have you considered exactly why this quality makes YOU desirable? A good sense of humor makes you highly attractive because it … 1. Expresses […]

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About You, Dating Advice, Dating Tips
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Are You Paying Attention to the ‘Godwinks’?

While walking to a workout class, busily talking to my mom about my latest dating flop, she kindly reminded me that when the time is right, when the stars align, when the right person comes along, it won’t be so difficult to fall in love. She’s a big believer in the way the universe twists […]

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About You, Being Single, Mind, Body And Spirit
say no to narcisisst

How to Say No to Narcissists and Takers

Does this sound familiar? A friend I’ll call “Ed” kept pushing me to contribute to my school’s alumni fund. The more he called me, the more stubborn I felt that my answer was, “No.” I felt that not only did I lack the money necessary to contribute in order to make a true difference, but […]

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About You, Expert Advice, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit