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Terry Crews: How to Be a Better Man in Love and Marriage

Terry Crews is on a serious roll these days! He is starring in FOX's hit comedy, "Brooklyn Nine-Nine;" has several films in the can including...

5 Reasons to 'Date' Yourself

Imagine knowing yourself on a deeper, more gratifying, less judgmental level. Imagine being able to describe yourself to others while...

How Gratitude Can Change Your Love Life

Gratitude is magical. It has the power to transform your love life. When your heart is open, you have more meaningful connections with...

14 Ways to Experience Contentment Today

Lots of people and organizations offer the “secret” to lasting contentment. And why not? This is a quality everyone desires but few seem...

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15 Ways to Date Successfully as a Single Parent

Everyone knows that dating is complicated under the best of circumstances. Add children into the picture, and things can get doubly complicated. But complications need not keep a single parent from dating … and dating successfully. Careful planning and wise decision-making can lead to an enjoyable dating life—and who knows, maybe even the partner you’ve been […]

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How to Create Happiness Regardless of Your Relationship Status

During the difficult moments in your life, you might find yourself desperate for the love and approval of others. You might find yourself looking for praise, support, and attention externally – relying on others (family, friends, partners, etc.) to make you feel better about yourself and your circumstances. Whether you are single or in a relationship, problems are […]

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How to Let Go of Others (When You Really Want to Hold on Tighter!)

When friends and family members are going through a rough time, often our immediate reaction is to try to resolve the situation for them. To ease their pain. To make life better. If a romantic relationship isn’t going the way we want, a common reaction is to cling harder, trying to convince the other person […]

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Ladies, Want More Online Dates? Try a Red Background

The color red is commonly acknowledged as being linked with passion and sexuality. Eve’s red apple is a symbol of seduction. Valentine cards, symbolizing romantic love, are often red. In films, from Marilyn Monroe in ‘Niagara’ to ‘The Woman in Red’, to Jessica Rabbit, iconic in her slinky red dress, beautiful women (and rabbits) wear red. […]

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To Tell or Not to Tell a Friend: ‘I Don’t Like Your Partner’

A delicate, yet unfortunately common dilemma involves what to do when you don’t like a friend’s boyfriend or girlfriend. Many can relate to the internal battle between keeping your mouth shut or speaking your opinion. This is a difficult topic because emotions are involved and there is no clear-cut right or wrong answer. Naturally, there […]

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10 Reasons to Date a Vegan

1. Vegans are passionate people. Their passion for a cause and for a lifestyle flows into all other areas of their lives. 2. Vegans have better sex lives. Their plant-based diets can boost hormone levels. 3. They are cheap dates! Veggies and tofu cost a lot less than lobster and steak. 4. Vegans aren’t afraid to stand up for […]

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