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15 Ways to Make Wise Dating Choices

The most wonderful relationships are the sum of many good decisions made over months, years, and decades. In Nicholas Sparks' latest romantic cinematic journey, 'The Choice' (in theaters Feb.5), these issues are explored as a young couple deals with some...

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5 Terrible First Date Questions (You Should Wait to Ask Until Later!)

When you first meet someone you're interested in, it is perfectly normal to want to know everything about this new person. There are usually some pretty loaded questions you'd like to ask, so the key is to know when and how to ask them. Take a look at the list...

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9 Major Mistakes Women Make in Relationships

As a relationship coach, I'm on the front lines every day hearing all the latest and most common ways that otherwise good people mess up their intimate relationships. While there are a million stories in the big city, the truth is that breakups usually...

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15 Ways to Stop Worrying About Your Love Life

No one denies that life in the modern era is stressful—and dating can add another layer of worry. You get nervous about going out with someone new (who doesn’t?), and may start asking yourself, “Am I ever going to find a great partner? Why don’t...

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4 Strategies to Connect with your Desire for Love

It is easy to hope for a more satisfying love life, but are you truly connected to attaining one? Can you imagine yourself in a happy, healthy, and stable relationship? Or do you notice yourself avoiding the answer? Some of my single clients who are looking...

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15 Reasons to Date a Veterinarian

In the hotly-awaited Nicholas Sparks-penned romance 'The Choice,' (in theaters Feb.5), the leading man just happens to have an extra alluring profession: he's a passionate caretaker of animals. Now who can resist that? Here are 15 reasons to consider...

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Not Sure About Online Dating? Keep it to Yourself!

If you’re new to online dating, you might have wrestled with the decision to join a site before you actually got up the nerve to post a profile. You might have wondered whether it would help you meet quality people. Even if you’re already chatting...

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A Cure for the ‘Pick Me’ Blues

If you’ve recently created a dating profile for yourself, you’re not alone. This is the busiest time of year for online dating sites like this one. Along with your height, eye color, and favorite films, you’ve probably attempted to include language...

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Talking Back to Your Inner Critic

In January, the gyms are crowded and dating sites like this one see their highest levels of traffic. That’s a good thing—the New Year is a terrific time to challenge yourself to improve your life. But as most of us are painfully aware, most New Year’s...

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Teresa Palmer talks Soul Connections and Life’s Defining Choices

I am not sure anyone can author romantic tales quite as dreamily as Nicholas Sparks, whose latest book-turned-big screen romance 'The Choice' arrives in theaters February 5. This particular story takes love, fate, and life's toughest decisions to a new level,...

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