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how to deal with lifes hassles

15 Ways to Get a Handle on Life's Hassles

We've all had them -- one of “those” days. And for singles, having one of "those" days might include one of "those" dates. Bad days--and the occasional bad date--are unavoidable.Here are 15 effective ways to better handle life's hassles:1. Identify...

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womenanddating

6 Reasons Women Today Have the Power that Counts the Most

Over the last several years, as an author, educator, and mentor of women, I have analyzed marriage from a multiplicity of angles—that is from material written by professional governmental, educational, and faith-based sociologists, scientists, and psychologists,...

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dating and the single parent

Dating and the Single Parent: 9 Things to Remember

Think dating is difficult? Try dating with a five-year-old or fourteen-year-old watching your every move. Suddenly your romantic life is immersed in the morals, values, and integrity you’ve established for your children. Can you hold fast to them or are you just...

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love yourself

What Prevents You from Loving Yourself?

In your daily life, are you guided by fear or love? What are the fears that block being loving to yourself and others?How often is the question, “What is loving to myself and others– what is in my highest good and the highest good of another?”...

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men who are good partners or not

5 Warning Signs That Your Partner May Not Be Good in a Crisis

Sometimes the very things we find attractive in someone may actually be warning signs that they may not be good for us in the long run. Those high expectations that make him a success in business may turn to unnecessary pressure in a crisis. That dramatic...

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Are You a Lazy Dater?

Recently I was chatting with a circle of women I met at a charity event when the conversation inevitably turned to relationships and dating. When the topic of online dating came up, a contest broke out among several women about who could be the most apathetic...

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How to Decode Dating Profile Buzzwords: Which Ones Really Matter

“It will never work,” my friend told me after I asked her about a recent match. “He wrote that he likes athletic women.”“But you’re athletic,” I protested. “You’re always hiking and taking spinning classes.”“But I’m not super toned,”...

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‘Why Am I Attracted to Unhappy People?’

Believe it or not, dating people who are unhappy is a problem for scores of men and women. If dating unhappy people sounds ridiculous to you, dig deeper into your own romantic past and you will probably find a person or two who was unhappy through and through.Does...

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The 5 Most Unattractive Traits in Men and Women

At first, you may think that the list of traits that make a man or woman unattractive is endless, like a scroll that goes on forever. The truth, though, is that many unattractive traits can be boiled down to more fundamental traits. Take a look at the ones...

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‘I Love My Freedom, But I Also Want a Relationship’

Dear Sara: I'm a 34-old-girl who never had a proper relationship. l started to feel so lonely, and seeing [people] all around me having someone makes me feel bad about myself. On the other hand, I do like my independent and free life but still want someone...

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