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6 Signs This is ‘Not’ The Guy for You

Here are some things to think about, ladies, as you get to know that new guy!

La Toya Jackson: How I Found Love, Trust, and a Life on Top

The pop culture icon talks about taking charge of her life, and the challenges along the way...

Terry Crews: How to Be a Better Man in Love and Marriage

The former NFL star and Old Spice guy tells us what it took to become a better husband...

How to Navigate the Road to Love and Happiness

It's a gentle reminder about taking advantage of opportunities when they present themselves...



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Ladies: 7 Ways to Maintain Class and Control Through Any Life Challenge

We all have moments where we don’t love how we responded to a situation or acted. Dr. Sherrie Campbell joins us today with some amazing points for women who want to be their best selves. Written by Dr. Sherrie Campbell When you are grounded... Read more

Do You Have the ‘Facebook Blues?’

Your cousin is picking blueberries with her 3-year-old twins. Your college classmate got married at an 18th century inn. And your ex is chilling at the beach with old friends and wants you to know “it doesn’t get any better than this.” In the age of social... Read more

Why Your Personality ‘Type’ Doesn’t Matter

ENFJ, INTP, Analysts, Explorers. There are many personality tests available that claim to classify you into a certain type, but do they really work?

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Dating Deal Breakers: Was it a Mistake or a Decision?

Mistakes are not a problem. Not learning from them is. I wrote a post recently about Dating Deal Breakers where I suggested it is good to know before you start dating what your ‘dating deal breakers’ are – you know, those things which are non-negotiable... Read more

Find Your Love Heroes: What You Can Learn From Other Couples

Whenever I encounter happy-looking couples, I like to ask them how they met. Like most people, I enjoy a good love story. I like watching their eyes light up as they recount the chase, the connection, the challenges and maybe even a breakup before... Read more

Portrait of a Failed Pickup (and a Postscript)

Last week I got a letter from a man named Mark, who asked for advice on giving women compliments. He had met a nice woman at an art galley and they chatted for about half an hour. Mark was normally shy and reserved with women, but a female friend had told... Read more

Dating Deal Breakers

If your date has more issues than a magazine, it’s time to cancel the subscription! On my first date with the guy who is now my husband, I recall asking him if he had ever cheated while in a relationship before. That was important to me. Really important.... Read more

What to Look for in a Partner if You Are the Anxious Type

Today’s guest blog from Dr. Leslie Becker-Phelps focuses on what to look for in a partner if you suffer from anxious attachment. It’s really interesting to think about what type of person really is the best match for your personality,... Read more

Getting Over Single ‘Shame’

After being unattached for eleven years, Sue had just started dating someone who had a lot of relationship experience, and she was embarrassed by her thin relationship resume. “How do I let go my feelings of inadequacy?” she asked author Sasha... Read more

Really, Man? 8 Dumb Things Men Do During Dating

Men and women are both equal opportunity offenders in the dating games they play. Most of it is just immaturity and insecurity, in my opinion. Our amazing new blogger Lindsay Tigar has checked the pulse of women out there to find out what drives them... Read more

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15 Reasons to Date an Esthetician

An esthetician is more than just a pretty face. Here are 15 reasons to date one: 1. Estheticians have great skin. It’s part of the job. Your date doesn’t slack off in the self-care department and likely embraces a healthy lifestyle. 2. Because of #1, your date is going to age fantastically. 3. And if you stick around […]

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Dating While Unemployed: 5 Things to Remember

It happens. And it happens to good people. We get fired, laid off, or decide it’s time to move on to the next job. This can be good news or scary, but either way life goes on and you don’t want your love life to stop just because you’re in ‘job transition’. These five tips […]

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The 10 Biggest Mistakes Made on First Dates

You walk into the restaurant and glance around nervously, scouring faces until finally you spot your date. You excitedly join them for a meal or coffee and then talk hopefully about seeing each other again. You watch your phone for the next couple of days, but to no avail. You’re disappointed and can’t help but […]

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15 Reasons to Date a Dog Groomer

If you find yourself taking your dog to the groomer more often than you need to, maybe you need to finally work up the nerve to ask her out for dinner. Here are 15 reasons to date a dog groomer: 1. You’ll know your date is a dog person… 2. …and probably won’t hate your dog. Or […]

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Is a ‘Man in Red’ More Attractive to Women?

In my previous post and in my book, Sensation: The New Science of Physical Intelligence, I showed how the color red influences the way men perceive women. Men who saw a photo of a woman against a red background perceived her as more attractive and sexier. But what about women’s perception of men? Does red enhance the […]

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Terry Crews: How to Be a Better Man in Love and Marriage

Terry Crews is on a serious roll these days! He is starring in FOX’s hit comedy, “Brooklyn Nine-Nine;” has several films in the can including “The Expendables 3,” “Aztec Warrior” and “Reach Me;” and he is the new host of “Who Wants To Be a Millionaire.” Life wasn’t always this first-rate for the former NFL […]

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