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dating and finances

Are You a Financial Fit for Each Other?

Healthy love and compatibility in a budding relationship are wonderful qualities and can take you a long way. If your attitudes about money matters don’t match, however, warning bells instead of wedding bells could be ringing. Have you had the “Talk”...

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6 Powerful Ways to Raise Your Feminine Energy

You are a powerful, smart, and driven woman. You excel in your career, are a go-getter and a doer. You’ve honed in on your masculine energy to help take charge but you find yourself burned out, tired, and out of balance. This is occurring because...

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Dating Someone with Kids: 4 Questions and Tips to Consider

Right off the bat, there are many reasons why it's not ideal to date someone with a child. After all, it's not just the fact that you have to make it work with the person you're dating and the child that comes along with him or her, but you also have...

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Do You Seem Too Busy to Date?

Yes, we are all busy, busy. We have jam-packed schedules full of work, travel, family commitments, exercise, social activities, personal development goals, and so many good TV shows. It’s amazing that anyone finds time to date! Well, it turns out we’re...

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6 Ways to Become a Successful Flirt

Men and women flirt differently, for both different reasons and expected outcomes. Flirting is an art that requires confidence without being over the top. Some of the same things that work in real life, also apply to online flirting. Let’s face it, someone...

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How to Feel Less Lonely When You’re Single: 5 Tips

There's no doubt that being single can be a little lonely sometimes, especially if all or most of your good friends are in relationships. While being a little lonely is inevitable, you don't have to feel really, really lonely. There are many things you can do to make...

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7 Ways to Connect with Your Date

Have you ever struggled to connect on a date? Or felt absolutely nothing sitting across the table from a potential partner? Or have you ever felt a strong connection to someone and believed you were going to get another date, but the feeling was not mutual?...

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How to Be a Fun Date

Been on a good date lately? If so, I bet you’re likely to describe it as “fun.” We rarely characterize early dates as being “meaningful” or “bonding,” although those words might be better indicators of the potential for a close relationship. That’s...

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15 Phrases That Shout 'Red Alert!'

You’ve heard the saying, “Actions speak louder than words.” That’s generally true, but there are also some phrases that reveal important information about the person who speaks them. Sometimes, the words that come out of an individual’s mouth...

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Celebrating Singles’ Independence

A few years ago, I held a Fourth of July barbecue in my newly adopted city, and afterwards I noticed something interesting: the friends who came early to help set up and stayed late to help clean up had one thing in common: They were single. This isn’t...

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