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love yourself

What Prevents You from Loving Yourself?

In your daily life, are you guided by fear or love? What are the fears that block being loving to yourself and others?How often is the question, “What is loving to myself and others– what is in my highest good and the highest good of another?”...

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men who are good partners or not

5 Warning Signs That Your Partner May Not Be Good in a Crisis

Sometimes the very things we find attractive in someone may actually be warning signs that they may not be good for us in the long run. Those high expectations that make him a success in business may turn to unnecessary pressure in a crisis. That dramatic...

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happy and single

10 Things Happy Singles Do Every Day

Happy single people are just like happy coupled people.Yep, you read that right!Why? Because we know one of the greatest — and simplest — secrets in life. Every day, we get to hang out with the most amazing person we know ... ourselves!And this doesn’t...

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‘Why Am I Attracted to Unhappy People?’

Believe it or not, dating people who are unhappy is a problem for scores of men and women. If dating unhappy people sounds ridiculous to you, dig deeper into your own romantic past and you will probably find a person or two who was unhappy through and through.Does...

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sense of humor

15 Reasons a Sense of Humor Makes You Hot

Almost every person has “sense of humor” high on the list of things they want in a partner. You know, of course, what you like about another’s person ability to be funny. But have you considered exactly why this quality makes YOU desirable? A good...

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The 5 Most Unattractive Traits in Men and Women

At first, you may think that the list of traits that make a man or woman unattractive is endless, like a scroll that goes on forever. The truth, though, is that many unattractive traits can be boiled down to more fundamental traits. Take a look at the ones...

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‘I Love My Freedom, But I Also Want a Relationship’

Dear Sara: I'm a 34-old-girl who never had a proper relationship. l started to feel so lonely, and seeing [people] all around me having someone makes me feel bad about myself. On the other hand, I do like my independent and free life but still want someone...

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3 Types of Shame That Hurt Your Dating Life

Shame is one of those issues that's often discussed without ever really operationalizing what it is. So, what is shame? Shame, boiled down to its root, is the feeling you have that something about you is wrong or bad. Where do we get our shame from?...

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Are You Paying Attention to the 'Godwinks'?

While walking to a workout class, busily talking to my mom about my latest dating flop, she kindly reminded me that when the time is right, when the stars align, when the right person comes along, it won’t be so difficult to fall in love. She’s a big believer...

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Dating With a Disability: ‘Should I Just Give Up?’

Dear Sara: I'm in Seattle and dating here is brutal. I'm 41, educated, funny, fairly attractive, and kind/courteous. I'm looking for the real thing. Here's the problem: I was almost killed in a car wreck two years ago and my ankles and feet were crushed,...

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