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6 Signs This is ‘Not’ The Guy for You

Here are some things to think about, ladies, as you get to know that new guy!

La Toya Jackson: How I Found Love, Trust, and a Life on Top

The pop culture icon talks about taking charge of her life, and the challenges along the way...

Terry Crews: How to Be a Better Man in Love and Marriage

The former NFL star and Old Spice guy tells us what it took to become a better husband...

How to Navigate the Road to Love and Happiness

It's a gentle reminder about taking advantage of opportunities when they present themselves...



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Ladies: 7 Ways to Maintain Class and Control Through Any Life Challenge

We all have moments where we don’t love how we responded to a situation or acted. Dr. Sherrie Campbell joins us today with some amazing points for women who want to be their best selves. Written by Dr. Sherrie Campbell When you are grounded... Read more

Do You Have the ‘Facebook Blues?’

Your cousin is picking blueberries with her 3-year-old twins. Your college classmate got married at an 18th century inn. And your ex is chilling at the beach with old friends and wants you to know “it doesn’t get any better than this.” In the age of social... Read more

Why Your Personality ‘Type’ Doesn’t Matter

ENFJ, INTP, Analysts, Explorers. There are many personality tests available that claim to classify you into a certain type, but do they really work?

The post Why... Read more

Dating Deal Breakers: Was it a Mistake or a Decision?

Mistakes are not a problem. Not learning from them is. I wrote a post recently about Dating Deal Breakers where I suggested it is good to know before you start dating what your ‘dating deal breakers’ are – you know, those things which are non-negotiable... Read more

Find Your Love Heroes: What You Can Learn From Other Couples

Whenever I encounter happy-looking couples, I like to ask them how they met. Like most people, I enjoy a good love story. I like watching their eyes light up as they recount the chase, the connection, the challenges and maybe even a breakup before... Read more

Portrait of a Failed Pickup (and a Postscript)

Last week I got a letter from a man named Mark, who asked for advice on giving women compliments. He had met a nice woman at an art galley and they chatted for about half an hour. Mark was normally shy and reserved with women, but a female friend had told... Read more

Dating Deal Breakers

If your date has more issues than a magazine, it’s time to cancel the subscription! On my first date with the guy who is now my husband, I recall asking him if he had ever cheated while in a relationship before. That was important to me. Really important.... Read more

What to Look for in a Partner if You Are the Anxious Type

Today’s guest blog from Dr. Leslie Becker-Phelps focuses on what to look for in a partner if you suffer from anxious attachment. It’s really interesting to think about what type of person really is the best match for your personality,... Read more

Getting Over Single ‘Shame’

After being unattached for eleven years, Sue had just started dating someone who had a lot of relationship experience, and she was embarrassed by her thin relationship resume. “How do I let go my feelings of inadequacy?” she asked author Sasha... Read more

Really, Man? 8 Dumb Things Men Do During Dating

Men and women are both equal opportunity offenders in the dating games they play. Most of it is just immaturity and insecurity, in my opinion. Our amazing new blogger Lindsay Tigar has checked the pulse of women out there to find out what drives them... Read more

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Science of Extraversion

Science of Extraversion

The word "extravert" evokes images of extremely talkative people, but this trait alone does not paint a complete picture of a person’s social style.

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What Anniversaries Really Mean

What Anniversaries Really Mean

With all of the expectations men and women have about anniversaries, there’s no wonder that they can be a source of frustration and anxiety.

Commitment, Relationships

Debunking the "2-Day Rule"

Debunking the “2-Day Rule”

Taking time between communications may seem like a good thing to do, but applying outdated etiquette might actually make you seem more romantically inept than socially adept.

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Love on TV

Love on TV

Incompatibilities may be entertaining on TV, but they are not as funny when you’re going through them in real life.

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The "Ex" Files: Get Over Your Baggage

The “Ex” Files: Get Over Your Baggage

No one goes through life unscathed by baggage, but the good news is that you can welcome a new perspective into your life.

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I'm not a Handsome Man— Help!

I’m not a Handsome Man— Help!

Dear Dr. Warren, By my own admission, I’ve just come to terms with the fact that I’m not a handsome man. I’m only slightly overweight and although it hasn’t kept me from having a great life, it’s been lovingly confirmed by various people in my life. It isn’t something I celebrate, but I do want […]

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