Women are happiest when the man in their life can tell when they are upset- and makes an effort to find out why. Read more.

Touching is tied to several components of a healthy relationship. It is so influential that even watching someone being touched can cause the same reaction as if we were touched ourselves. At what point in your relationship do you consider public displays of affection acceptable?

Romantic promises have the instant benefit of making one feel like the other truly loves and cares for them. The risk is what happens when that promise is not fulfilled, or flat out broken. We have all come in contact with people who promise something with all the love and authenticity in their heart, and then completely forget about it the very next day. What gives?

Unrealistic expectations are biased notions of how one should behave. Common clues include words “should,” “always,” and “never;” these reflect rules that can often undermine love in relationships. Do you have too many rules?

When I read the eHarmony community boards, I see a lot of great advice given by members. But do you follow your own advice? Knowing the right thing to do in relationships and actually choosing to do it are not always tied together. Find out why.