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		<title>Where does your empathy come from?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jun 2011 21:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Emily Maywood, MS</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever get to the point where you feel as though you and your partner have absolutely nothing in common? Read further to find out the one common thread that lies in almost all of us. </p><p>The post <a href="http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/17/where-does-your-empathy-come-from/">Where does your empathy come from?</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.eharmony.com/blog">eHarmony Blog</a>.</p>]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://static.eharmony.com/labs/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/kiki.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2375" title="kiki" src="http://static.eharmony.com/labs/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/kiki-300x218.jpg" alt="kiki 300x218 Where does your empathy come from?" width="144" height="104" /></a><a href="http://static.eharmony.com/labs/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/bouba.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-2377" title="bouba" src="http://static.eharmony.com/labs/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/bouba-300x218.jpg" alt="bouba 300x218 Where does your empathy come from?" width="144" height="104" /></a></p>
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<p><strong>See the two  shapes above? Which is a <em>bouba</em> and which is a <em>kiki</em>?</strong></p>
<p>If you are like an estimated 98% of the rest of the world, you would say that the image to the left is a “kiki” and the image to the right is a “bouba.&#8221;</p>
<p>In 2001, USCD psychologist Vilayanur Ramachandran presented these  shapes to both American and Indian populations. Similar to the original  research of this subject (Köhler, 1929; 1947), Ramacharndran found that  almost the entire sample responded the same way, in that they assigned  the image with the jagged edge as a &#8220;kiki&#8221;, and the image with the  rounded edges as a &#8220;bouba.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Why do most people respond this way?</strong></p>
<p>Presumably, subjects tend to map the name “kiki” onto the figure on  the left because the of the sharp inflection in both the pointy drawing  and the harsh sound of the word, “kiki.&#8221; Similarly, the rounded shaping  of the edges of the image on the right makes it more like the rounded  auditory inflection of “bouba.&#8221; Ramachadran theorizes that the human  brain is somehow able to extract abstract properties from shapes and  sounds.</p>
<p><a title="Click here" href="http://www.eharmony.com/labs/2011/06/where-does-your-empathy-come-from/" target="_blank">Click here</a> to learn more about why this research is important to understanding empathy and how it impacts your relationship.</p>
<p>The post <a href="http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/17/where-does-your-empathy-come-from/">Where does your empathy come from?</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.eharmony.com/blog">eHarmony Blog</a>.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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