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eHarmony experts' take on dating, relationships and the science of love.


when to introduce kids
March 23, 2015

Introducing the Kids…

“The uncertainty of parenting can bring up feelings in us that range from frustration to terror.” — Brene Brown I had a great conversation with a friend last week. I’m not sure we ever landed on an answer, but it was a worthwhile discussion that I want to share here. I would love to get your […]

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longest ride
March 20, 2015

What You Should Sacrifice for Love — and Where You Should Never Compromise

Brought to you by ‘The Longest Ride’, in theaters April 10. When we’re younger and more naive, we want so much to believe that love conquers all odds and obstacles. We tend to believe this until we get our hearts seriously broken for the first time. But when it comes to making a long-term relationship […]

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jealousy
March 19, 2015

Are Men and Women More Threatened by Emotional or Sexual Infidelity?

The green eyed monster — chances are most people have experienced, at least once, the not-so-pleasant feeling of jealousy. In fact, the term “green-eyed monster” was coined as far back as 1603 in the Shakespearian play, The Tragedy of Othello, the Moor of Venice: Beware of jealousy, my lord! It’s a green-eyed monster that makes […]

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double dating better for relationships
March 19, 2015

How a Double Date Could Improve Your Relationship

When you and your romantic partner lead busy lives, it can be hard to find time to enjoy each other and spend time together with friends. You may talk about going out over the weekend for dinner or drinks, but you end up staying in and watching whatever happens to be on TV. On Monday, you […]

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warning signs not to get married
March 18, 2015

8 Major Signs You Should NOT Marry Him

Unfortunately, there aren’t classes in school teaching us how to choose a great romantic partner. Some people score and find a healthy relationship, but many of us stumble along the way. I really liked the straight talk from Dr. Charles & Dr. Elizabeth Schmitz about warning signs women should look out for in a man. Written by Dr. […]

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ep_13
March 18, 2015

Franny Agnes Lee Returns with a ‘Bargain Date’

Our brave gal Franny Agnes Lee will often take time off to recover from dating fatigue. As smart as she is, she doesn’t always make the best decisions when it comes to matters of the heart — like in this latest foray with a bargain dating website. More Franny: See Franny’s summer date gone awry! […]

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theexisprettier
March 18, 2015

When His Ex is Prettier Than You

Let me say from the start that I feel your pain. Dating someone seriously and simultaneously knowing that his ex was prettier than you can make you feel, well, pretty low. Even if you happen to be the most well-rounded, well-adjusted catch in the world, the reality is that you’re still human and that we still […]

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birthday blues
March 17, 2015

Coping with the Milestone Birthday Blues

Dear Sara: I’m two months away from turning 35. Despite my trying to stay away from depressing media and articles, I find myself getting sucked in anyway. What would you tell yourself as a single 35-year-old, knowing what you now know? —R Dear R: When I turned 35, I had been unattached for four years, […]

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talking about the ex on dates
March 16, 2015

The Ex Test: How You Talk about Your Ex Says a Lot about You

You probably agree that it’s a bad idea to bash your ex on a first date. It makes sense that you’re not going to impress your prospective new sweetie with lurid tales of your former boyfriend’s affairs, your ex-wife’s rages or your custody battles during your first hour of face time. But you’re eventually going […]

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broken hearts how to deal with advice
March 16, 2015

Unrequited: When the One You Love Doesn’t Love You Back

When Lisa Phillips was thirty years old, she fell passionately in love with an unavailable man. Her crush began as a hopeful mental diversion, but quickly escalated into a kind of madness. At one point, she found herself standing outside the man’s door, knocking so loudly and insistently that when he finally opened it he […]

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