‘Where Did All of My Friends Go?’

Dear Sara, One thing I really miss about being in a relationship is the immediate and intense community it has always brought me. When I’m part of a couple, I am constantly invited to dine with other couples, double date, hang out and get to know my partner’s friends. When I’m single, I get about […]

Are You Sabotaging Your Chance at Love with This Destructive Habit?

When it comes to protecting yourself from loving the wrong person, you can forget solely relying on your list of deal-breakers. It turns out that our thoughts about ourselves are way more influential than we realize in determining the quality of person we connect with. I’m talking about the “not enough” greatest hits that haunt even […]

Deepak Chopra: ‘The Future of God’ Begins with You

I was lucky enough to visit the Chopra Center in Carlsbad, CA last week, where I talked with Deepak Chopra about his latest book, The Future of God: A Practical Approach to Spirituality for Our Times. Besides being one of the kindest people I have met, Chopra has written a truly thought-provoking book about understanding God […]

13 Strong Signs That He’s Definitely Not into You

Love is amazing, but can also be blinding. Sometimes our hearts are so set on making it work with someone, we aren’t paying attention to obvious signs that the object of our affection isn’t quite feeling the same way. Relationship coach Deni Abbie reveals 13 obvious red flags that the one you think you love isn’t loving […]

Playing Hard to Get: How to Attract Drama and Broken-Winged Birds

Playing hard to get is bad for so many reasons, yet the main reason has to do with wasting time. The idea behind playing hard to get is that someone will want you more if you don’t always reciprocate the interest. Breaking News: If you are someone who plays hard to get, I’m not sure […]

Why Some People Don’t Want Single Women to Vote

Late last month, a panel of Fox News commentators discussed the coming elections when host Kimberly Guilfoyle explained why she didn’t think young single women should vote: “It’s the same reason why young women on juries are not a good idea. They don’t get it. They’re not in that same life experience of paying the […]

Don’t Let This Dumb Question Wreck Your First Date

The question seems innocent enough. You’re happily chatting away with your date when your server stops at your table, delivers your pumpkin ale and Malbec and asks, “Will you be ordering food?” If you’re a guy (and I’m assuming most men pay for the first date), you feel under pressure to ask your date if […]

Science Finds That Nice People Are Hot

A group of college students met on the first day of an architectural dig and were asked to rate each other’s physical attractiveness. Six weeks later, researchers asked them to re-evaluate. In this study, which was conducted by Kevin Kniffin and David Sloan Wilson, students were also asked to assess their classmates’ personality and character, […]

Online Dating: One Secret to Success

How many a man has thrown up his hands at a time when a little more effort, a little more patience would have achieved success. — Elbert Hubbard I was talking to a lovely woman who works with me at eHarmony the other morning. She manages the customer care department, and deals with any and […]

Franny Agnes Lee: Back in the Dating Mix

Franny took a little break from dating, which is highly understandable given all of her misadventures. Never one to give up, though, she and her faithful sidekick Caffeine return and get all dressed up for her latest evening out. Enjoy!   More Franny: See Franny’s summer date gone awry! Franny: Blind Date One Franny: Blind […]

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