Jeannie Assimos, Vice President, Content

Posts by Jeannie Assimos, Vice President, Content

After years of researching, writing and reporting about Hollywood’s failed relationships, Jeannie ventured into the land of successful romances at eHarmony, and hasn’t looked back since! On board since early 2008, Jeannie absorbs everything she can about daters’ turn-ons, turn-offs, likes and dislikes – and shares her observations on the eHarmony Advice site.

Should Unconditional Love Apply to Your Romantic Relationship?
February 26, 2015

Should Unconditional Love Apply to Your Romantic Relationship?

The idea of completely accepting someone as they are is so nice, but in reality, not so easy. There have to be personal boundaries and one has to be able to express themselves and share when a behavior that their partner is exhibiting is bothersome, or upsetting in any way. One of my favorite dating experts, […]

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It’s Not About the Shampoo (Listen for the Unspoken)
February 20, 2015

It’s Not About the Shampoo (Listen for the Unspoken)

How many times have you had a conversation with someone where they got really upset over something trivial? Clearly, there was a subtext there and something deeper going on. Instead of just reacting in the moment, is it possible to figure out what’s actually occuring and steer things in a more positive direction? Author Peter Bregman […]

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Grant Langston: How I Would Prevent a Guy From Cheating…
February 19, 2015

Grant Langston: How I Would Prevent a Guy From Cheating…

I have been lucky enough to work with Grant Langston, our VP of Brand Marketing, for the past six years. He always comes to the table with some very real wisdom, and I am happy to see other people acknowledging him as well, like our friends over at DatingAdvice.com! I had to share the great […]

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Rob and Kristen Bell on the Best Way to Find Love
February 13, 2015

Rob and Kristen Bell on the Best Way to Find Love

This Sunday, Oprah Winfrey sits down with Pastor Rob Bell and his wife Kristen for a conversation about transforming your relationships. But before that, we were fortunate enough to chat with the amazing couple as they answered your questions from our eHarmony social media channels. I think you will really like their answers, because I found them […]

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Valentine’s Gifts that Don’t Cost a Penny
February 11, 2015

Valentine’s Gifts that Don’t Cost a Penny

If you are single this Valentine’s Day, you can either choose to feel sad you aren’t with anyone, or you can just look at the day like any other. It’s. just. a. day. Hang out with friends or family if it is bothering you and you struggle with being alone. And before you know it … it […]

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I Didn’t Drink For a Month and My Dating Life Was…
February 9, 2015

I Didn’t Drink For a Month and My Dating Life Was…

Blogger Lindsay Tigar is back with new confessions, and a personal challenge for the new year.  I love that she removed the “mask” of alcohol and went on dates without that little crutch, which can sometimes cloud judgment. Read on for her latest entry with us… Written by Lindsay Tigar Last year was truly amazing: […]

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Accept the Past to Enjoy the Present
January 30, 2015

Accept the Past to Enjoy the Present

Hanging on to old hurts, failed relationships, or other negative experiences just keeps you stuck in that emotional space. I have seen a few people in my life do just that, and it is very sad. Some of them could never move forward, forgive, and heal. I often wonder what their lives could have been like […]

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The Most Important Thing to Remember in Dating (Which You Likely Forget!)
January 12, 2015

The Most Important Thing to Remember in Dating (Which You Likely Forget!)

In today’s guest post, the amazing Lindsay Tigar returns with an inspiring new blog about how she shifted her focus inward, and has found some real happiness. You will love this one! Enjoy — and congrats to Lindsay. Can’t wait to see where life takes you next. Written by Lindsay Tigar My ex and I broke […]

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Are You Really Ready for a Relationship? These 6 Signs Point to ‘No’
January 8, 2015

Are You Really Ready for a Relationship? These 6 Signs Point to ‘No’

You might really want a relationship. But are you emotionally ready for one? Taking a look at ourselves is challenging, but rewarding and smart in the end. And not just for you — but for anyone taking the time to invest in you. I really liked today’s guest blog from relationship expert Aaron Kaplan. Written by Aaron […]

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3 Questions You Should Always Ask on a First Date
December 30, 2014

3 Questions You Should Always Ask on a First Date

First dates can be exciting, but also overwhelming. Just in case you are the slightly anxious type, I thought these three questions posed by author and relationship expert Nancy Nichols were good places to start — and I think they should be asked by both men and women in the very early stage of getting to […]

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