Lack of fundamental hygiene
There are always times when physiologically, we’re not at our best, but I have noticed the disturbing trend of meeting women who have a disturbing lack of good physical hygiene. It is offensive that someone would even consider meeting someone for the first time and being physically dirty.

Treating someone as a resource
i have found nothing to be as offensive as the lack of good social graces. Asking questions in depth about my income, investments, property owned, monthly salary and savings is not only rude, it is a red flag about an individual who is either a predator or a mercenary — and are clearly to be avoided. Preoccupation with an individual’s financial resources is proof that an individual is only dating for what benefits them in the relationship: they are clearly not engaged in matters of the heart.