Comments on: Once a cheater always a cheater?

By: josmar

josmar — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 18:37:56 +0000

I cannot agree more. Commitment phobia. I had a bride run out on me at the altar. Some cannot commit and to recognize people who are ” not available” is difficult indeed. Sometimes we attract or are attracted to these particular types and we must recognize them to avoid further incidents . Placing one’s trust in someone and losing it is invasive .

By: Matt

Matt — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 16:42:04 +0000

Not sure about the psychology of cheating, but in my opinion once a person has gone over that line they will probably do it again. Like Cayth… found out my wife of 16 years was cheating and it was over. Above all other things, to me marriage = trust. If you don’t have trust there is no marriage. I think people have a real issue with conflict and if someone is having a hard enough time in a relationship they are considering cheating.. that is some big conflict waiting to happen. Easier to run than stay and fight for your marriage.

By: Theresa Ellis

Theresa Ellis — Mon, 26 Mar 2012 03:29:00 +0000

Some people can not committt. They aren’t capable of being faithful. The thrill of the chase and the experiences of someone new is too hard to give up.
If someone has cheated in the past, understand the whole story and make a decision. The risk of heartache is huge if that person has a history of cheating. In my opinion, it isn’t worth it.

By: cayth

cayth — Mon, 19 Mar 2012 21:58:21 +0000

Some men just know how to cheat with out being found out as in my case i found out that my ex had cheated after i threw him out the whole 29yrs we were married, and i never suspected that he was. sometimes it’s more than an addiction.

By: Jeremy Wahl

Jeremy Wahl — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 05:14:03 +0000

Some people just seem to have no ability to resist temptation. It’s almost the same as having an addictive personality.