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	<title>Comments on: Is He Really Who He Says He Is?</title>
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		<title>By: matt</title>
		<link>http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2012/02/01/is-he-really-who-he-says-he-is/#comment-6661</link>
		<dc:creator>matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 04:58:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Could not agree more josh.  I cant speak for all men but I do not play this game you speak of.  If you are playing games with the men in your life then perhaps you should look in the mirror, you may find the reason for you being single.  I am here to find love and start a family, not play some little girls high school dating game.  get serious and grow up sandy and those like you or get out of the dating pool and let those of us trying to actually find our soul mate actualize success.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Could not agree more josh.  I cant speak for all men but I do not play this game you speak of.  If you are playing games with the men in your life then perhaps you should look in the mirror, you may find the reason for you being single.  I am here to find love and start a family, not play some little girls high school dating game.  get serious and grow up sandy and those like you or get out of the dating pool and let those of us trying to actually find our soul mate actualize success.</p>
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		<title>By: Josh</title>
		<link>http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2012/02/01/is-he-really-who-he-says-he-is/#comment-6554</link>
		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Feb 2012 17:25:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most men are not dumb, I imagine if they are anything like me they are trying to meet a woman who isn&#039;t playing said &quot;dating game&quot;. As long as you view finding a partner as a game count on being alone. Instead spend your time with someone really getting to know them not doing all the silly crap we consider &quot;dating game&quot; and you might be surprised at who you find.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most men are not dumb, I imagine if they are anything like me they are trying to meet a woman who isn&#8217;t playing said &#8220;dating game&#8221;. As long as you view finding a partner as a game count on being alone. Instead spend your time with someone really getting to know them not doing all the silly crap we consider &#8220;dating game&#8221; and you might be surprised at who you find.</p>
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		<title>By: Sandy</title>
		<link>http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2012/02/01/is-he-really-who-he-says-he-is/#comment-6544</link>
		<dc:creator>Sandy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 18:31:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can not agree more! Believe it or not most men are dumb and do not know how to play the dating game. They are so busy thinking with the wrong head, they forget to think with the right one!  They truly think that women are desperate, lonely, and will do about anything to have a man! I love men, but think again this is 2012 and women know the game like you do guys and we women will allow you to put your foot in your 
mouth without our hearts getting involved and then we&#039;re gone..... leaving your dumb behind hanging!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can not agree more! Believe it or not most men are dumb and do not know how to play the dating game. They are so busy thinking with the wrong head, they forget to think with the right one!  They truly think that women are desperate, lonely, and will do about anything to have a man! I love men, but think again this is 2012 and women know the game like you do guys and we women will allow you to put your foot in your<br />
mouth without our hearts getting involved and then we&#8217;re gone&#8230;.. leaving your dumb behind hanging!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Beverly</title>
		<link>http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2012/02/01/is-he-really-who-he-says-he-is/#comment-6534</link>
		<dc:creator>Beverly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 21:43:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find it is very important to read your profile thoroughly.  I was attracted to this young man and I thought he wold be attracted to me.  To my dismay he closed out on me.  I was disappointed.  My daughter was reading my profile.  She brought it to my attention that I said I wanted more children and I have 3 children.  I am 52 years old.  I have been teaching for 26 years.  It is no way I would want or have a baby at this point in my life.  Also my children are 32, 23 and 17 and by no means babies.  He  must have assumed I wanted more children and had 3 babies running around my home. Better luck next time.  To put it behind me I simply said what&#039;s meant for me, is meant for me and moved on.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find it is very important to read your profile thoroughly.  I was attracted to this young man and I thought he wold be attracted to me.  To my dismay he closed out on me.  I was disappointed.  My daughter was reading my profile.  She brought it to my attention that I said I wanted more children and I have 3 children.  I am 52 years old.  I have been teaching for 26 years.  It is no way I would want or have a baby at this point in my life.  Also my children are 32, 23 and 17 and by no means babies.  He  must have assumed I wanted more children and had 3 babies running around my home. Better luck next time.  To put it behind me I simply said what&#8217;s meant for me, is meant for me and moved on.</p>
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		<title>By: Abby</title>
		<link>http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2012/02/01/is-he-really-who-he-says-he-is/#comment-6512</link>
		<dc:creator>Abby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 02:04:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is this really advice? Yeah, it&#039;s great to find out these things, obviously. But Renee doesn&#039;t explain at all how she acquires this information other than the fact that Pierre invited her home on the first date. Is Renee suggesting that people outright ask &quot;What are you looking for?&quot; It&#039;s hard to tell.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is this really advice? Yeah, it&#8217;s great to find out these things, obviously. But Renee doesn&#8217;t explain at all how she acquires this information other than the fact that Pierre invited her home on the first date. Is Renee suggesting that people outright ask &#8220;What are you looking for?&#8221; It&#8217;s hard to tell.</p>
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