Dating preferences change with age

November 22, 2011

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With the rise and popularity of online dating, there is more age diversity than ever online.  Recent studies looked into dating preferences among older and younger adults.  Most of these studies come from analysis of online dating profiles specifically.  While some dating preferences changed over time, others seem to stay the same.

Here are a few things that change with age:

  1. Women prefer older men until about the age of 75, when they start wanting younger men (whether this is a preference or lack of available men in unknown)
  2. The older men get, the more likely they are to want a younger partner
  3. Health and mobility become an important dating criteria after 60
  4. Older people are more rigid in their desire for someone of a certain height, ethnicity, and religion
  5. Older adults (65+) are more willing to accept dates who live further from them

Yet there are some things that never change.  Studies show that:old young dating preferences dv1662065 292x300 Dating preferences change with age

  1. Physical attraction is more important for men than women – for men 20-75+, men were more likely to want an attractive partner compared to women
  2. Women are choosier than men – at every age, women have more criteria and stricter standards than men when looking for a mate

It is definitely true that preferences - dating or otherwise – change with age.  Just think about the things you thought were important in a partner 10 or 20 years ago compared to what you think is important now.  It is also important to note that there is more than one way to look at changes over time.  For example, dating preferences may be more a reflection of increasing tolerance, with younger people being more willing to date outside of their race and religion compared to older adults.  Or it could be a sign that people become more selective and set in their ways the older they become.  These are just a few thoughts and findings about dating in the later years.  What are the things you look for now that you didn’t when you were  younger?

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References:

Alterovitz & Mendelsohn, 2009

Bulcroft & Bulcroft, 1991

McIntosh et al., 2011

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