http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/10/04/not-all-baggage-is-bad/ eHarmony experts’ take on dating, relationships and the science of love Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:53:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/10/04/not-all-baggage-is-bad/#comment-3899 Elliott Wed, 05 Oct 2011 00:38:52 +0000 http://advice3.prod.dc1.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9691#comment-3899 When I’m getting to know someone new and my relationship history comes up, I talk about what I like most about the women I dated. It’s important to have a fond memories of people with who you were intimate, even if things didn’t work out. If people sense that you respect your past lovers, they will trust you more because they know you will respect them also.

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