Comments on: If Age Is Just A Number, Why Are Cougars More Satisfied? http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/08/31/if-age-is-just-a-number-why-are-cougars-more-satisfied/ eHarmony experts’ take on dating, relationships and the science of love Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:53:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Cheryl http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/08/31/if-age-is-just-a-number-why-are-cougars-more-satisfied/#comment-3502 Cheryl Sat, 10 Sep 2011 10:42:52 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9313#comment-3502 The term cougar does imply, ” a predatory beast.”

Younger men approach me more than older men.

Perhaps older women date younger men because those men seem to have greater availability.

I think we all gravitate to who is most interested.

]]> By: mitchelle http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/08/31/if-age-is-just-a-number-why-are-cougars-more-satisfied/#comment-3436 mitchelle Mon, 05 Sep 2011 06:02:06 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9313#comment-3436 I for one find it offensive that the word “cougar” is used at all… sorry Jaqulyn, but using it is not empowering, it’s derogatory.

]]> By: Anon http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/08/31/if-age-is-just-a-number-why-are-cougars-more-satisfied/#comment-3432 Anon Sun, 04 Sep 2011 19:33:07 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9313#comment-3432 I had a long relationship with a 18 year younger man. I tried really hard to keep my distance and not fall in love because I knew eventually I would be the injured party. For 5 years he appeared devoted ; even potty over me but sadly I did learn eventually that he had constantly cheated about without me knowing and eventually he moved on to a another older women (all be it 4 years my junior). he is still on the surface with her but I hear he still cheats about and when he finds a suitable partner he will jump but in the meantime he likes the comfort and sexuality of an older women. I personally think that unless you have buckets of money for face work in the future why waste your time. As my darling dad said you very rarely see a 40 year old man looking around at older women, ie the toy boy thing runs its short life which should be kept short and not an older women becoming more and more insecure and eventually too old to meet a nice guy her own age. be warned it nearly happened to but fortunately Ive just met a really lovely man my own age who is a real gentlemen with a bit of sophistication which i didn’t get with the spunky toy boy!

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