http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/08/11/7-dos-and-donts-for-equality-in-the-bedroom/ eHarmony experts’ take on dating, relationships and the science of love Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:53:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/08/11/7-dos-and-donts-for-equality-in-the-bedroom/#comment-3326 Allie Mon, 29 Aug 2011 14:11:16 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9161#comment-3326 Absolutely equality in the bedroom– and everywhere else– Equality in any form begins with an evenly-yolked relationship– Which rarely happens on web sites– My experience– being matched with a year-long match who had no romantic side, no will for intimacy– mental disorders, behavior that was barely legal concerning minors and alcohol— The match prior to him, another frightening psychotic person in his 50′s– Yikes!! Then there was the one who was proud because he came out of the closet as a gay man– he was actually matched with me! Previous matches for remainder of 30 day subscription– unemployed coal miners out of Kentucky, unemployed men period, wheew– Okay people– I joined the meet up groups in my community, along with groups which i have a special interest, mainly water sports– I am meeting a fabulous group of people– healthy minded, physically fit, and interesting! Good potential partners for life! We have no idea who is behind that profile on a web dating service– My excperience is lots of men who have deep problems, frightening ones at that, whose profile pictures are not themselves, nor is their lives— Yikes again! I’m waiting for the day that someone is matched with another person who takes their life, is on parole or something similar! Again– neither E-Harmony nor we honest subscribers know what is on the other side of the profile we are matched with– I am finished with this garbage and have spread the word!

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