Comments on: What’s The Most Important Quality in a Partner? http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/ eHarmony experts’ take on dating, relationships and the science of love Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:53:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Julia http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/#comment-3148 Julia Sun, 07 Aug 2011 03:24:31 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9081#comment-3148 Trust me, the looks eventually go. If he has even just some of the qualities listed above, and makes you happy, then I would stay with him. Also don’t be so concerned about what others thinking. I had to face my family fiercely because I dated outside my race and faith often. Then I chickened out and didn’t marry the man of my dreams. Where are all those family members now? Think for yourself.

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]]> By: Shawn http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/#comment-3088 Shawn Tue, 02 Aug 2011 02:16:36 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9081#comment-3088 The qualities I will be looking in partner are :
- intelligent
- good communicator
- funny
- no addictions
- well dressed, good taste, classic
- respectful
- generous
- helpful
- energetic
- strong, confident
- emotionally secure
- good looking
- tall, dark and handsome

]]> By: Marv http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/#comment-3065 Marv Fri, 29 Jul 2011 19:14:58 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9081#comment-3065 The same with women. All the good ones are taken. Only the bad or good and dumb ones left.

Character shines through the densest cloud.

]]> By: Jess http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/#comment-3047 Jess Fri, 29 Jul 2011 05:40:32 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9081#comment-3047 I agree that ~Character~ is the most important quality in anyone. I have yet to find a man with great integrity. So single I stay! I use to surrender to the hotties but it’s more pain and trouble that they’re worth. Every man with integrity is already married … I need to find a widow! Come on men … step it up out there!

]]> By: Allen http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/#comment-3028 Allen Thu, 28 Jul 2011 10:59:08 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9081#comment-3028 I would say that it’s a spin on the “good character” that you mention but it comes down to three: (1) honesty and integrity (with self and others) and of course this goes with TRUST (the building blocks of it); (2) effective communication (being able to share what’s important); (3) sustainability – being able to withstand virtually anything (as even keeled as can be BUT able to recover from fluctuation). It comes down to QUALITIES (much more than just one).

]]> By: Pamela Wright http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/07/26/whats-the-most-important-quality-in-a-partner/#comment-3024 Pamela Wright Thu, 28 Jul 2011 04:50:23 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=9081#comment-3024 I have to agree, good character is a huge factor. My ex was certainly lacking in that department but, thanks to eHarmony, I found a man of integrity. I’m so much happier and feel safer being married to Bill.

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