Comments on: Dating Do: ‘You Look Hot!’ http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/ eHarmony experts’ take on dating, relationships and the science of love Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:53:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Dave http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-3303 Dave Sat, 27 Aug 2011 06:30:03 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-3303 This is an area I was quite guilty of in my marriage. I really believe I helped chase her away, instead of complimenting her, I gave her sweet little cuts…. it is amazing what life and maturity will teach you.

]]> By: Allen Kemp http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-3072 Allen Kemp Sat, 30 Jul 2011 18:34:16 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-3072 kweel

]]> By: Reply http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-3023 Reply Thu, 28 Jul 2011 04:28:42 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-3023 Believe you’re confusing dating and established relationships.

]]> By: Megs http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-2928 Megs Fri, 15 Jul 2011 20:48:00 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-2928 In the Bible it says that we are to continually encourage one another- that goes with all relationships that we have, so why no encourage in the relationship that means the most to us… How hard is it to look at our wonderful man or woman and say…. Hey hey GOOD LOOKIN’! ;) If nothing else they will smile and you can have a good laugh (which is also a great thing to have in the relationship) just because you are getting “serious” with someone does NOT mean that you have to be SERIOUS in attitude all the time :) LIVE LAUGH LOVE!!!

]]> By: Victoria http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-2888 Victoria Thu, 14 Jul 2011 23:14:53 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-2888 If more people started to focus and actually start giving out compliments to their partners or even to friends and family members, they will remember you for it, appreciate it (since few others compliment people).

It is very important that more guys compliment their partner. So few guys do this these days.

It’s about time that guys these day start becoming a traditional guy, which was like the folks who are now in their mid-70′s and older….!!! They know what it means to respect, honor and cherish their partner, which includes compliments no matter what!

]]> By: Grimm http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-2845 Grimm Mon, 11 Jul 2011 16:19:25 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-2845 To force or guilt someone into giving u a compliment is lame, but outside of that I agree. Ppl should compliment each other more often. I mean ppl don’t have a problem with breaking each other down, so why not start a pattern of uplifting ppl instead.

]]> By: Jo Bowlin-Johnson http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-2810 Jo Bowlin-Johnson Sat, 09 Jul 2011 05:59:39 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-2810 But the compliment needs to sound sincere. Best if you really mean it!

]]> By: Lyndsie Lou http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-2786 Lyndsie Lou Thu, 07 Jul 2011 19:32:25 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-2786 People really underestimate the power of a compliment. It goes a lot further than people may fathom :)

]]> By: Cat http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/27/dating-do-you-look-hot/#comment-2729 Cat Mon, 27 Jun 2011 17:00:21 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8912#comment-2729 I agree! Just a few simple words goes a long way.

Someone actually said to me before, “if I give out compliments often, then it’s not special anymore.”

Um, now that’s just silly! SILLY!

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