Comments on: Let’s Talk About High Maintenance http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/ eHarmony experts’ take on dating, relationships and the science of love Mon, 11 Mar 2013 14:53:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Isaac http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-3122 Isaac Fri, 05 Aug 2011 17:44:25 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-3122 When guy call girls High maintenance it is generally a simile for “pain in the ass.” Knowing what you want doesn’t equal high maintenance….stuff like unreasonably self absorbed or overly picky or in need to constant attention are more what is being talk about.

]]> By: troost99 http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2907 troost99 Fri, 15 Jul 2011 11:54:16 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2907 I would never date anyone that I thought was hard to please. I have no intentions of spending my life jumping through hoops, and living with someone who considered themselves “special” because of how they looked, what job they held, how much money they made, etc. I think when someone refers to “high maintenance”, it is a negative statement, and usually it means, “they are just not worth the trouble”.

]]> By: Dano http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2791 Dano Fri, 08 Jul 2011 11:11:55 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2791 Way to be consistent

http://advice.eharmony.com/relationships/breaking-up/top-eight-reasons-men-fall-out-love?slide=6

]]> By: Cat http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2497 Cat Wed, 15 Jun 2011 19:43:47 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2497 Vanity vs. high maintenance. Knowing what I want is a good thing. Not settling is a good thing… plastic surgery def no bueno.

]]> By: Cynthia http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2465 Cynthia Mon, 13 Jun 2011 04:41:41 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2465 Could you perhaps be confusing the word selfish with high maintenance? Just a thought. (smile)

]]> By: Cynthia http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2464 Cynthia Mon, 13 Jun 2011 04:39:54 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2464 When I think of “high maintenance”, I think of someone who obsesses about their appearance to the extreme: plastic surgery, (on a regular basis, frequent trips to the beauty salon, a person who only wears the most expensive clothes, jewelry, cosmetics, the works.

]]> By: John http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2452 John Sat, 11 Jun 2011 17:00:48 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2452 I began dating late last year after a suitable time since my wife passed away. As a man I can tell you that I am turned off by ‘high maintenance’ women – they are generally too self-concerned, self-absorbed and immature to be reliable in any meaningful sense or to put their partner ahead of themselves when the need is there.

]]> By: fishreader http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2437 fishreader Fri, 10 Jun 2011 14:01:41 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2437 You ” GLAMORIZE ” HM as knowing what you want, but the reality is most people view a HM person as ” it must be my way ” because I’m special.

]]> By: Cat http://www.eharmony.com/blog/2011/06/07/lets-talk-about-high-maintenance/#comment-2409 Cat Tue, 07 Jun 2011 21:35:59 +0000 http://advice.eharmony.com/blog/?p=8635#comment-2409 Well, if knowing what you want and what makes you happy = high maintenance… well, so be it. I am high maintenance as well. :)

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