Comments on: Discovering The Truth About Your Match

By: Isaura Steenburg

Isaura Steenburg — Wed, 27 Jun 2012 15:37:09 +0000

Genuinely impressive

By: Lucille

Lucille — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 17:55:57 +0000

Just a comment, I have been on e-harmony since June 24/2011 for a 3 month introductory offer. I’m a good catch, good-looking/professional/athletic/well read and informed however I too have initiated every communication with no results, what is the matter gentleman are you on the site for entertainment only?

By: R.H.P.

R.H.P. — Sun, 14 Aug 2011 19:01:56 +0000

It helps to send a smile; that’s free, and if you get a smile back, (or two or three) then it might be time to give EH your credit card and get serious.

By: R.H.P.

R.H.P. — Sun, 14 Aug 2011 19:00:07 +0000

We don’t live in a vacuum. All of us who do post on dating sites are to some degree ending, or trying to forget, a past relationship. Be patient. It (s)he was wishy washy about getting in touch with you; just keep up your search and hope for the best…don’t re-message, don’t beg. Give them time and space to wrap up what their pre-dating life was, and you might be pleasantly surprised.

By: R.H.P.

R.H.P. — Sun, 14 Aug 2011 18:55:51 +0000

You don’t worry about background checks….yet…but you do plan to meet in an open, public place, and share emails first, then phone numbers after a few chats have made you comfortable. Have alternate emails for such meetings; one that doesn’t directly give away your name. Once you know the full name, you don’t have to be sneaky; you can come out and ask permission…total upfront honesty might surprise you.

By: Connie

Connie — Tue, 24 May 2011 21:46:44 +0000

If you have only been on for 3 weeks you need to give people time. Some people don’t get on that often. Don’t take it personally. Also there is a good chance they are just persuing another relationship.

By: Rick

Rick — Sat, 21 May 2011 05:41:59 +0000

I am a new member to the e harmony site. I’ve been on for 3 weeks and the matches that I send messages to don’t respond back.If someone does not respond to your messages then move on and don’t waste your time they are just to damn picky.

By: Toni Narbonne

Toni Narbonne — Fri, 20 May 2011 02:20:02 +0000

Another question: first experience with a eharmony match was quite confusing. We got to the point where we met and we sat and talked for 2 hours. We both agreed we wanted to pursue the relationship and every time we text the same message of continuing was relayed to me by him yet never came to fruition. Why would someone continue to tell you they wanted to pursue the relationship, yet not. What was the point?

By: Toni Narbonne

Toni Narbonne — Fri, 20 May 2011 02:15:08 +0000

How do I do a background check if only first name is known?

By: Toni Narbonne

Toni Narbonne — Fri, 20 May 2011 02:13:10 +0000

How do I do a background check when only the first name is known?