Comments on: A Real Relationship Killer – and Dating Don’t

By: Doug

Doug — Sat, 30 Apr 2011 03:37:53 +0000

Unconditional love = complete acceptance of the other person exactly how they are. There is a big difference between criticizing and encouraging someone to improve the things you know they want to work on. I think what this article is saying is, “don’t criticize even some of the time.” Because when you do, what you are truly saying is, “I don’t accept you the way you are right now.” And they may take it as “You don’t accept me anymore.” I think they are specifically talking about the critical “put down”. Many people when feeling down, will put another person down for an ego boost… and the author is pointing out that this sort of thing is very dangerous and damaging to what could be a very happy relationship without the criticism.

By: Jean Lewis

Jean Lewis — Fri, 22 Apr 2011 06:34:58 +0000

If there is constant criticism there is not unconditional love. If you love someone you are not criticizing all the time. Nobody is perfect, but do we love them enough to for- give them, or not criticize. Nobody is per- fect, but can we love enough to forgive & Or not criticize. A marriage should be that each think of the other as themself, a couple as one under God.

By: Jean

Jean — Fri, 22 Apr 2011 06:00:45 +0000

If there is always criticism, there can’t be unconditional love. No body is perfect, but do we love them enough to forgive them. Or no body is perfect, but can we love enough to forgive. Where there is UCL you shouldn’t be critizing all the time, you should think of your partner as yourself, as one together. Let’s say as one together with God.

By: wayne

wayne — Thu, 21 Apr 2011 13:02:29 +0000

IT WAS MY “PRIVILEGE” TO HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO
A WOMAN, WHO IN MY ESTIMATION, HAD ALL THE
QUALITIES WHICH WOULD BE CONSIDERED MOST
PREVALENT FOR “A HAPPY MARRIAGE”…….
WE HAD “RESPECT” AND “CONSIDERATION”, FOR
EACH OTHER….WHICH LASTED, FOR NEARLY 40 YEARS, BUT COULD HAVE CONTINUED LONGER, BUT
UNFORTUNATELY CAME TO AN END, DUE TO HER
“UNTIMELY DEATH”…. GOD BLESS HER!!!!